How a Terminal Diagnosis Changed Ex-Civil Servant & Single-Dad’s Perspective | #832

Yeo Whee Jim won a coveted government scholarship, entered the civil service and was living the Singapore dream. In 2013, he lost his wife to breast cancer, leaving him a single father raising a young daughter. An ALS diagnosis arrived in 2023 giving him two to five years left. He has since published a photo book and set up a trust fund at Community Foundation Singapore for underprivileged young caregivers. 🔔 Enjoyed this one? Please 𝗦𝗨𝗕𝗦𝗖𝗥𝗜𝗕𝗘 to the channel so you don't miss our latest episodes. Every subscriber helps us grow, open doors to new guests, stories, formats or ideas! 𝗔𝗱𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹 𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗸𝘀 Commentary: I'm dying. It’s okay if friends don’t know how to be there for me – just be there [2024] | https://www.channelnewsasia.com/comme... Verses that heal, poetry as legacy: S’pore man with terminal illness launches book [2024] | https://www.straitstimes.com/singapor... Single dad with fatal disease starts charitable fund p2026 | https://www.straitstimes.com/singapor... The Lok Ah Yan & Whee Jim Fund: Because no child should walk alone | https://www.giving.sg/donate/campaign... 𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗸𝗹𝗼𝗿𝘆 If you’re looking for a meaningful gift, we’d love to help you create a personal podcast for a loved one. Get started at Folklory.com 𝗢𝗻𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗼𝗸 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 Haresh: Oats Studios | Netflix | https://www.netflix.com/sg/title/8148... Terence: How Screens Stole Childhood — and How to Get It Back | Jonathan Haidt | TED |    • How Screens Stole Childhood — and How to G...   Whee Jim: Moving. Yeo Whee Jim's Photographs and Reflections | https://www.wordimagesg.com/product-p... ROHTO Z! Pro Eye Drops | https://www.tsurugi.co.jp/shop/ROHTO-... 𝗦𝘂𝗯𝘀𝗰𝗿𝗶𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘄𝗲𝗲𝗸𝗹𝘆 𝗻𝗲𝘄𝘀𝗹𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 – "𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗟𝗶𝘁𝘁𝗹𝗲 𝗕𝗶𝘁” https://yahlahbut.short.gy/subscribe Get a roundup of our One Shiok Things & first dibs on our latest launches delivered straight to your inbox! (00:00) On this episode... (01:07) Intro (05:23) Whee Jim's Early Life and the Singapore Dream (06:38) His Wife's Breast Cancer Diagnosis (10:42) Grief and Life as a Single Father (17:08) Normalising End-of-Life Conversations (20:35) Preparing for Death: Decluttering and Legacy (23:37) Facing His Own ALS Diagnosis (26:21) His Wife's Letters for His Daughter (28:53) Raising a Daughter With Autonomy (36:55) The Concept of Accumulated Privilege (48:29) Paying It Forward: The Trust Fund (51:47) Finding Purpose Through Writing and Art (55:30) Faith Through Hardship (59:09) His Caregiver Elizabeth (1:03:35) Singapore as a Wheelchair User (1:08:07) The Heart in Our Competence (1:15:40) Hopes for the Next Generation (1:18:18) The Value of Old Friendships (1:20:26) One Shiok Thing (1:29:41) Post-Interview Reflection 𝗙𝗼𝗹𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗼𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹𝘀 ᴛɪᴋᴛᴏᴋ   / yahlahbut   ɪɴꜱᴛᴀɢʀᴀᴍ   / yahlahbut   ꜰᴀᴄᴇʙᴏᴏᴋ   / yahlahbutpod   𝗝𝗼𝗶𝗻 𝗢𝘂𝗿 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗹𝘀 ʀᴇᴅᴅɪᴛ   / yahlahbut   ᴛᴇʟᴇɢʀᴀᴍ https://t.me/yahlahbutpodcast 𝗪𝗼𝗿𝗸 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝘂𝘀! Drop us an email at [email protected]! We’re always looking out for people to do cool stuff with, so let’s chat! 𝘔𝘪𝘤𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘏𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘱𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 @𝘴𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘦 |   / shure   𝘌𝘥𝘪𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘪𝘹𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘛𝘳𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘠𝘦𝘢𝘬