Seven Year Itch From the POV of a 10 Year Relationship

Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beducate.me/shan2026 —--------- In this episode of Lovers, Jared and I sit down on vacation for a conversation we’ve never had this honestly before. This is our seventh year of marriage, the year people warn you about. The year of the “seven-year itch.” And while we’ve built a life together, kids, history, love, this was the first year I really sat with a truth that surprised even me. For a long time, I wasn’t fully certain we would stay married forever. In this conversation, we talk about what it actually feels like to be years into a relationship, how having children changes the dynamic between partners, and why even strong marriages go through seasons of doubt, distance, and recalibration. We share the fears we had going into year seven, the honest ways our relationship has been tested, and what ultimately shifted for me to say, fully and consciously, that this is the person I’m choosing for life. This episode isn’t about perfect love. It’s about commitment, growth, and what it really takes to stay. If you’ve ever wondered whether your relationship can survive the hard seasons, or questioned what long-term love is supposed to feel like, this conversation is for you. CHAPTERS 00:00 Trailer 00:43 Puerto Rico! 02:58 7 Year Itch 06:39 I Feel Weird Saying This... 07:16 Independence Issues 08:48 Love vs. Actions 10:46 What Having Children Taught You About Love 13:55 Next Week's Episode 14:40 AD BREAK 16:48 Raising Emotionally Free Kids 19:03 Generationally Everything Gets Better 22:00 The Secret to Romantic Relationships 26:13 Advice for Married People on Day 1 Follow Jared Brady Instagram →   / enjoyjaredbrady   Subscribe to his YouTube →    / @musicmondayenjoy   Want more Lover? Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletter Join the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/community Explore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes ________________________ Advertising & Other Inquiries: [email protected]