What to Do When Someone Joins a Cult - Ex-Cult Members Share How They Were De-Radicalized

Join the private group discussion on discord for $1/m:   / gayextrad   In this episode of Intrinsically Ordered, Evelyn from ‪@leavelaughlove‬ joins me to tackle one of the hardest questions we get asked: how do you talk to loved ones who are falling into fundamentalist Catholicism? We unpack: Why people get drawn into high-control religious groups How to maintain healthy boundaries without burning bridges Why “debating” rarely changes minds Compassionate approaches that keep relationships intact When it’s okay to let go Whether it’s your child, spouse, parent, or friend, this conversation offers realistic and empathetic strategies for navigating these difficult dynamics. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:23 Today's Topic: Relating to Fundamentalist Catholics 01:06 Personal Experiences with Fundamentalism 01:49 Understanding the Rabbit Hole 02:57 Starting the Conversation 06:07 The Importance of Boundaries 09:49 Maintaining Relationships with Compassion 13:08 Navigating Conversations and Debates 21:22 The Role of Community in Fundamentalism 23:55 Setting Clear Boundaries 31:17 Respecting Individual Journeys 37:45 Navigating Conflicting Emotions 38:48 Maintaining Relationships Despite Differences 40:26 Understanding High-Control Religious Beliefs 44:22 Advice for Parents of Religious Teens 56:43 The Deconstruction Process 01:04:32 Setting Boundaries and Finding Supportive Relationships 01:13:13 Final Thoughts and Viewer Engagement