Fake Nice Guys, "Romantic" Red Flags, & The Toxic Relationship Obsession, Explained | Compilation

Joe Goldberg from Netflix's You is a master manipulator and a perfect example of the scariest type of boyfriend: one that pulls you into a seemingly great relationship, only to flip the switch and become very dangerous. In this compilation video, we're taking a look back at Joe and other love bombers, unpacking the "Nice Guy" trope (like How I Met Your Mother's Ted Mosby, Friends' Ross Geller & more), analyzing why movies and tv shows try to make the biggest dating red flags seem romantic (from Twilight to The Notebook to 50 Shades of Grey & beyond), digging into the rise of the Anti-Romcom, and taking a look at how You took on the 'eat the rich trope' back in season 4! #You #JoeGoldberg #Lovebombing #NiceGuySyndrome #Dating #DatingRedFlags #Movies #TV CHAPTERS 00:00:00 The dangerous truth about love bombers 00:13:47 The big problem with fake Nice Guys 00:34:15 Dating red flags that Hollywood romanticizes 00:48:23 Why Anti-Romcoms are taking over 01:01:24 You vs the ultra rich Join our Patreon to unlock the members-only series “Total Take," vote on what we cover next, and more:   / thetake   Read articles on film, TV and culture: https://www.the-take.com Follow our socials: https://linktr.ee/thisisthetake The Take was created by Debra Minoff & Susannah McCullough