ЧТО ВОЙНА ДЕЛАЕТ С ЧЕЛОВЕКОМ ПОСЛЕ ФРОНТА? ПТСР, дети, семья и ненависть

What happens to a person after war? Why is PTSD more than just anxiety or bad dreams? How does war trauma change family, relationships with children, and the ability to return to normal life? This conversation will explore how post-traumatic stress works, why many men don't notice their own depression, why we need to teach people to talk about their experiences, and how to help those who have returned from war. We'll also cover wives, children, family therapy, "moral wounding," and why hatred toward entire groups of people is also a consequence of trauma. In this issue: • What is PTSD and how does it manifest itself; • Why war doesn't end for a person after returning home; • How PTSD differs from latent depression; • Why veterans find it difficult to reintegrate into their families; • How war traumatizes wives and children; • Why we need to teach people to talk about their experiences; • What is "moral wounding"; • How to talk to a child about war honestly but gently; • Why one of the goals of psychotherapy is to restore a person's sense that tomorrow will finally bring normal life; • Is it possible to stop hatred before it becomes the new norm? ❤️ Support independent journalism, it helps us continue our work. 💳 One-time donation: ▪ 1000 ₽ — https://u.to/t37nIQ 🔁 Monthly support: ▪ 300 ₽ — https://u.to/-H7nIQ ▪ 500 ₽ — https://u.to/MX-nIQ ▪ 1000 ₽ — https://u.to/aX-nIQ ⸻ 🛍 Our merch: https://bookmerchshop.ru https://ozon.ru/t/bepddwW ⸻ 📰 Read Novaya Gazeta articles: https://novayagazeta.ru ⸻ 📲 YouTube is slowing down — subscribe to our video channel Telegram: http://t.me/nomediarussia ⸻ 📩 For advertising and partnership inquiries: [email protected] ⸻ 🎙 The YouTube channel "NO.Media from Russia" is a project by independent journalists who continue to work in Moscow. *designated a foreign agent by the Russian Ministry of Justice Timecodes: 00:27 How to avoid being lost in someone else's pain and maintain empathy 01:20 What PTSD really is 02:13 Why a person remains "on edge" after war 03:54 Hidden depression after war 05:12 Why people don't always admit they need help 06:20 Why some want to go back to war 07:30 How to recognize the symptoms of trauma 08:27 What helps and what harms after returning 09:21 Why it's so important to talk about your experiences 10:25 Why it's not customary in Israel to glorify soldiers 12:15 Is there separate assistance for wives 13:10 Why you're not needed at home as a warrior 15:39 How everyday details become triggers 17:29 How working with families helps maintain relationships 19:49 Who handles trauma more severely — adults or children 21:04 How children perceive their father's departure for war 22:28 How to talk honestly with a child about war 24:20 Trauma as an intrusion of reality into illusion 26:34 Breakdown of trust and moral wounding 28:22 Why sometimes a person needs to regain the feeling that "everything will be okay" 29:08 How war breeds hatred towards entire groups of people 31:20 Is it possible to break free from black-and-white thinking