Premature Ejaculation, Delay Sprays & The Truth About Lasting Longer

In this episode, we are joined once again by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, the company behind Promescent — the first FDA-compliant, clinically supported delay spray for premature ejaculation. Jeff has spent more than a decade helping change the conversation around men’s sexual wellness, reducing the shame around premature ejaculation, and advocating for science-backed solutions for a problem that many men suffer through in silence. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual concerns men face, yet it remains one of the hardest topics for men to talk about. Shame, embarrassment, unrealistic expectations from porn, and myths about “mental weakness” often stop men from getting the help they need. In this conversation, Mark and Jeff break down why PE is not about being selfish, weak, or uncaring — and why many men who struggle with it would do anything to last longer and feel more confident with their partner. Jeff explains some of the physiological reasons premature ejaculation can happen, including penile nerve hypersensitivity, prostatitis, low testosterone, and other medical factors. He also talks about the “arousal gap” between men and women, how unrealistic sexual expectations can create pressure, and why performance anxiety can make PE and even erectile dysfunction worse over time. The episode also goes deep into delay sprays — what they are, how they work, and why many products on the market can create problems like too much numbness or transfer to a partner. Jeff explains how Promescent’s formula is designed to absorb beneath the surface of the skin, helping men maintain more sensation while reducing the risk of numbing their partner. Mark and Jeff also discuss the overlap between premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, why chronic PE can create a cycle of anxiety and avoidance, and how couples can reduce pressure during intimacy. Jeff shares practical ways men can begin to regain control, including communication, slowing down, changing rhythm or position, using toys or other forms of stimulation, and shifting the focus away from “performance” and toward shared satisfaction. This conversation is honest, direct, and hopeful. Premature ejaculation is common, treatable, and nothing to be ashamed of. If you or your partner are struggling with PE, this episode is a reminder that there are real solutions available — and that the first step is being willing to talk about it. ► Website link: eiqmen.com ► Work with an Expert: eiqmen.com/work-with-an-expert ► Erectile dysfunction course: courses.eiqmen.com ► Learn more about Jeff Abraham: ► https://x.com/JeffAbraham111 ► https://www.promescent.com/ #PrematureEjaculation #DelaySpray #Promescent #MensHealth #SexualHealth #ErectileDysfunction #PerformanceAnxiety #SexualConfidence #MensSexualWellness #PEHelp #LastLonger #SexTherapy #MaleWellness #Intimacy #RelationshipHealth