一度でも言われたら、静かに離れていい三つの言葉｜空海が教える、笑顔で心を削る人の見抜き方

After talking to a particular person, I inexplicably feel a heavy weight on my heart. The other person smiles and doesn't seem to mean any harm, which makes me wonder, "Is there something wrong with me for being bothered by this?" But perhaps that feeling of unease was justified. In this video, I'll discuss three phrases, based on Kukai's teachings, that you can quietly distance yourself from after hearing them even once. All of these words are offered with a gentle voice and a smile. A person's true heart is revealed in their words. 1200 years ago, Kukai saw this for himself. If you develop the ability to see through these words, you will no longer be swayed by that person's words. You can put an end to nights spent blaming yourself for feeling unsettled. [Table of Contents] 00:00 There are words you can cut ties with after hearing them even once. 01:58 Chapter 1: Why harmless words hurt the most. 05:02 Chapter 2: Three phrases you can cut ties with. 14:32 Chapter 3: How to quietly distance yourself without causing a fuss. 18:26 Summary [Kukai's Teachings Presented in This Video] The Meaning of Sound and Character: ...A teaching that a person's true nature is revealed in both their voice and their writing. Impermanence of All Things: ...Everything in this world is constantly changing; relationships, too, become stronger and weaker. Settling Relationships: ...The idea of ​​"settling" or "graduating" from relationships. Not by hating and cutting ties, but by quietly letting go. *Kukai (Kobo Daishi / 774-835) was the founder of the Shingon sect. This video is based on the teachings of Kukai and Esoteric Buddhism. #Kukai #KoboDaishi #HumanRelationships #Relationships #BuddhistTeachings #LaterYears #HowToCalmYourMind