"It's ok not to know!"

Everyone keeps asking what you're going to do with the house. Your kids ask. Your friends ask. Maybe your ex's lawyer asks. And you don't have an answer yet — and that makes you feel like you're behind, or doing this wrong. You're not. Here's something that helps: in Oklahoma, the marital home is part of the overall division of property — but "dividing" it doesn't always mean an immediate sale. Sometimes one spouse stays temporarily, sometimes the home is sold and proceeds split, sometimes it's refinanced into one name. Which path makes sense depends on your specific finances — and that's a conversation for your attorney first. But here's what's true regardless: you do not have to have the "what happens to the house" answer figured out before you're ready to think about it. When you ARE ready — even just to understand your options — I'm a free phone call. No pressure. Vanessa Crelia, REALTOR® | 405.546.1800 | Ariston Realty, LLC | 405.802.1174 | [Fair Housing Logo] | SRES®