You might not want what you think you want.
for a long time, i thought i wanted fancy title at a fancy company. it turns out what i really wanted was to be worth something. and then i couldn't stop seeing the same pattern everywhere. this is a video about desire, worth, safety, and a simple question I've been asking myself lately: what will this give me? notesfromreb — short investigations into technology, taste, feelings, and modern life.

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The problem with getting what you want

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I made my phone super annoying to check.

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I stopped needing everyone to understand me

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I Kept Pushing. I Never Felt Like Enough.

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Why Groups of Women Still Scare Me

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People don’t buy products anymore. They buy worlds.

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How to write with AI without becoming a worse writer

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stop being an audience member of your own life

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I don’t want to carry everything anymore

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The best career advice I have right now

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The #1 writing hack for people who hate writing

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You can now buy an entire personality online.

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Blurry future is not the end

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How to stop negative thinking

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I started choosing myself quietly

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have you ever wished to be popular?

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maybe it doesn’t have to be one or the other

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Olympic skier Mikaela Shiffrin on grief: 'I wish my dad could see who I’ve become'

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The science of 'Dad Brain' and how fatherhood changes men

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