No lo alejas tú. Lo aleja tu apego. (la lógica invisible del apego ansioso)

In this video, you'll understand why some people seek security in a relationship and end up producing the exact opposite. Behind anxious attachment lies a deeper logic: an automatic response that activates precisely when someone truly begins to matter. If you've ever felt that no matter how much you sought reassurance, the anxiety wouldn't subside, or that someone close to you began to drift away without you understanding why, this video will help you understand what might be happening. And if you're the one who feels that alarm bell constantly ringing within a relationship, this will help you too. Here, you won't find a list of signs or empty advice: we're going to look at the psychological mechanism that produces this cycle, where it comes from, how it formed, and why it activates just when the bond starts to become important. We'll talk about anxious attachment, the search for security, fear of abandonment, romantic relationships, and childhood wounds, but above all, something more precise: the invisible logic that causes someone to push away the person they love most without even realizing it. If this type of content is helpful to you, please subscribe. It really helps me to keep making videos like this. Psychodynamics explores the invisible dynamics that organize our relationships: in family, with partners, at work, and in everyday life. In this video, we analyze anxious attachment from a psychodynamic perspective, articulating ideas from contemporary psychoanalysis with real-life situations. References: Bowlby, J. (1988). A Secure Base: Clinical Applications of Attachment Theory. Paidós. Ainsworth, M. D., Blehar, M. C., Waters, E., & Wall, S. (1978). Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation. Psychology Press. Mikulincer, M., & Shaver, P. R. (2007). Attachment in Adulthood: Structure, Dynamics, and Change. Guilford Press. Johnson, S. (2008). Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for Lasting Love. Urano Editions. Main, M., & Solomon, J. (1986). Discovery of an insecure-disorganized/disoriented attachment pattern. In T. B. Brazelton & M. W. Yogman (Eds.), Affective development in infancy. Ablex. Cassidy, J., & Berlin, L. J. (1994). The insecure/ambivalent pattern of attachment: Theory and research. Child Development, 65(4), 971–991. Topics we explore on this channel: psychodynamics, contemporary psychoanalysis, relational theory, family dynamics, attachment, relational trauma, identity, emotional development, romantic relationships, human bonds, subjectivity, childhood, and family. #AnxiousAttachment #Psychology #Relationships #Couple #ChildhoodWounds #Attachment #FearOfAbandonment #EmotionalInsecurity Music: Song: Shifting — Oak Studios |    • [Background Music] Shifting - Japanese Jaz...   Song: Roots — Oak Studios |    • [background music] azure - delicate piano ...   Song: Azure — Oak Studios |    • [No Copyright Music] Roots - Chill Piano B...   Creative Commons—Attribution ND 4.0