ariana grande & the conversation we’re not allowed to have

get an exclusive 15% discount on Saily data plans! use code RAYA at checkout download Saily app or go to https://saily.com/raya ----------------------------------------- in today’s video, we’re talking about #arianagrande 's #eternalsunshinetour & the wave of concern that followed her return to the stage: why the conversation around her appearance has become so charged, so polarised, and so hard to even have without it immediately turning into a fight what happens when we refuse to talk about what we are all clearly seeing? not just in relation to ariana, but in a wider culture that keeps swinging between silence and extremes whenever women’s bodies are involved in public discourse this is a messy conversation & i don’t think there is a perfect way to have it, but i do think avoiding it entirely doesn’t make it disappear, so let's have a chat! ----------------------------------------- 🍿 timestamps: 0:00 - ariana grande: eternal sunshine, eternal denial 6:49 - ariana: the victim & the perpetrator 11:21 - bigger impact 17:43 - cycle repeating itself: karen carpenter, taylor swift & calista flockhart 21:34 - the conversation needs to continue ----------------------------------------- please consider supporting the channel on patreon:   / blackteanosugar   ----------------------------------------- 🎥 more videos: why Americans can't cancel influencers:    • influencer scams: why europe punishes & th...   our obsession with aging & beauty:    • the worst thing you can be is your age   ----------------------------------------- 🗞️ sources: https://www.thefp.com/p/in-wicked-the... https://www.tampabay.com/archive/2000... https://www.theguardian.com/books/201... https://variety.com/2026/music/news/a... ----------------------------------------- alternative titles for the algo: ariana grande & the conversation people keep shutting down we need to talk about ariana grande ariana grande, and the conversation we’re not allowed to have we’ve seen this before (and it didn’t end well) why this conversation matters more than you think the cycle we keep repeating (ariana grande) ariana grande & why we need to keep talking about this ----------------------------------------- 🎨 eyelook: anastasia beverly hills modern renaissance eyeshadow palette shade "red ochre" glamshop turbo glow in the shade "lace pink" ----------------------------------------- find me on socials: 🕯️ instagram:   / blackteanosugarrr   🕯️ pinterest:   / blackteanosugarr   🕯️tiktok:   / blackteanosugarrrr   💌 contact me via: [email protected] thanks for watching and have a good one! xx