Why I plan my life on a science fair board (and you should, too!)
I plan my life on a science fair board every three months, and I think you should too...especially if you, like me, have ADHD and have been personally victimized by the world's obsession with SMART goals. For years I gave up on planners, apps, SMART goals and ambitious plans, thinking I must simply be "too inconsistent" to finish what I start. What I've learned is that I need a Big Paper Planning Day, an approach to life design that combines motivation science with hands-on, visual goal-setting. If you love school supply shopping, get real motivated by novelty, and/or need a way of goal setting and planning that doesn't ask you to do the same exact thing every day forever...this one's for you. Join us for a Big Paper Planning Day retreat: https://www.prettydecent.org/big Related article about my beef with SMART goals: https://leximerritt.substack.com/p/to... Reference: "How Focusing on Superordinate Goals Motivates Broad, Long-Term Goal Pursuit: A Theoretical Perspective" (https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/...) 00:00 - 01:51 Big Paper Planning Day Introduction 01:51 - 5:55 Why "Just do it!" didn't work for me 5:56 - 6:12 What materials do I need? 6:13 - 7:21 Why every three months? 7:24 - 9:42 Step One: Vision & Values 9:43 - 10:37 Step Two: Abstract Goals 10:38 - 13:32 Step Three: Action Menus 13:33 - 15:15 The Identity Shift 15:16 - 18:31 Step Four: Results & Targets 18:32 - 21:40 Consistency = accommodation

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