まともに付き合う必要なし!「人を見下す人の心理」と対処法3つ

"I'm having trouble with someone close to me who looks down on me..." There's always that one person who looks down on others. They lack confidence in themselves and look down on others in order to feel secure. There's no need to get serious about this type of person. If you deal with them, they'll only look down on you more in order to feel secure. We've talked about lessons to help you avoid becoming a burden to others. --Watch exclusive videos to learn more about relationships and life. Receive daily words of insight. YouTube Membership here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ▼Table of Contents▼ 0:00 Today's Theme 0:34 ① Looking down on others to protect yourself 2:40 ② Lack of confidence 4:47 ③ Anxiety and fear 6:54 ④ Not wanting to grow 9:08 Solution ① Focus on other successes 11:20 Solution ② Increase your capabilities 13:49 Solution ③ Let them win and become indifferent 15:36 Summary: Today's Key Points ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon Book: "Mental Fatigue Disappears" "How Sensitive People Speak" https://amzn.asia/d/fWSf2NS ▼Amazon "I've Decided to Stop Being Controlled"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A Community for Sensitive People ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Cocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆Learn from various experts with HSP traits and interact with fellow participants. First, learn how to improve your self-esteem, and then build relationships with confidence. This is a hybrid community of learning and interaction, perfect for those who have struggled with interpersonal relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About Advice and Lifestyle Information for HSPs ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and Advice Service Primarily for HSPs [HSP Textbook] Over 6,000 subscribers to date. A weekly newsletter with 20,000-50,000 characters of information on relationships, HSPs, HSS-type HSPs, and HSEs. Various content is available, including exclusive live shows, exclusive radio shows, exclusive videos, and a consultation form. If you'd like to discuss your concerns with Ryota, please use this newsletter. I'll explain each one in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSPs, such as work or family-related issues, are also welcome. I'll answer as an advisor. --Click here for details and registration: ↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Winner of the 2020 MaguMagu Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Winner of the 2021 MagMag by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● "How to let go peacefully": 7 tips for properly fading out and cutting ties with people    • 「穏便な離れ方」上手に人と縁を切る、正しいフェードアウトの7ポイント   ● "The power to prevent emotional upset": 7 ways to avoid being overwhelmed by unpleasant and painful things    • 『心の動揺を防ぐ力』嫌なこと、つらいことに振り回されない7つの方法   ● "Living without anger": Dramatically reduce energy consumption / What are the key points for reducing irritability when you let go? https://you tu.be/1F7n2_KJFM0 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles worth reading ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog to help HSPs and sensitive people live better lives https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of HSP diagnostic tests: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●The ultimate solo technique. When you're struggling with relationships, live like a "friendly lone wolf." A counselor shares the secret to avoiding making enemies. https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle/Long-Laid-Back Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender studies, etc. during college (Bachelor of Arts). A severe HSP himself, he has changed jobs five times and experienced relationship difficulties. He holds multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children. Runs "The HSP Textbook," a consultation center and lifestyle resource for HSPs. His books are currently on sale nationwide through KADOKAWA, SB Creative, and Asuka Publishing. Runs "Cocoiro Salon," a community for HSPs, and holds various events. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ *HSP is a temperament, a psychological term used to describe people who are highly sensitive to their environment. (Easily influenced by their environment, for better or worse.) Just because you're an HSP doesn't mean you have a hard time living or are "this or that." This channel is solely for discussing the concerns o...