The Highest Blessings: Virtual Retreat Dhamma Q&A (6 of 6)

Ajahn Sona answers questions as part of 'The Highest Blessings - Teachings on the Mangala Sutta' Virtual Retreat. See here for Dhamma talks:    • The Highest Blessings: Dhamma Talks   Index of Questions: 0:00 - Introduction 0:39 - Due to chronic illness I have to make considerable concessions with things contrary to what Buddhist discipline suggests, e.g. sleep. How can I deal with this so it's not an obstacle on the path? 2:48 - How can one be well-caring of one’s parents, if a close relationship is in some ways harmful to one’s own life? Does 'well caring' also refer to the inner relationship to one’s parents, i.e. wishing them well being and a happy life? 6:40 - The Buddha taught many highest blessings. Are we supposed to see each as always present, or as we learn Dhamma, does each come into being? 8:11 - Do we reincarnate with the same people over and over, or carry additional family or group kamma? 11:04 - How do you spot abusive or bulling people? 14:39 - I thank you for yesterday’s talk and Q&A, and, of course I know this is the Buddhist way but I keep wondering how well one can use this mindset in the face of people who really intentionally mean one real harm, or when in situations of horrific violence. Could you say more on the dire situations please? 18:38 - My question is about the concept and aim of 'retirement' from employment. When people can retire from their employment should they continue to find other ways to 'work' if they can? Is there any ethical problem with continuing to receive income from a pension or investments they have made? 21:57 - I've been sitting with a lot of strong, persistent anxiety, which is not just vague, but a reaction to some very real issues. Do you have suggestions about how to work with anxiety? 25:59 - How to strike a balance between being skilled in occupation and having a boring job, conducive to meditative practice? 28:16 - You mentioned that a career in the arts can be an example of skillful behaviour because it can energize people's lives. Please elaborate on how this can be helpful and not frivolous? Can oil painting be part of a spiritual practice? 31:22 - I have a question about intoxicants. I am prescribed a medication for a medical condition. Is taking this medication breaking the precepts? 34:24 - You talked about the physics of generosity: does that also include a balance, i.e. if you get a lot, you have to give a lot? What is more important, the quantity or the quality of giving? 40:00 - Can you please elaborate on the effect of thinking of the benefits of generosity while giving a gift. Does that reduce or taint the merit of giving? How can one test for the purity of one’s own motives in giving? 41:55 - I have been through trauma and have difficulty sleeping. Is it OK to take sleep medication? Ajahn Sona Podcast: Apple - http://bit.ly/AppleAjSona Spotify - http://bit.ly/SpotifyAjSona Podbean - http://bit.ly/PodbeanAjSona To support more virtual Dhamma from Birken Monastery, visit: https://birken.ca/support/