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Meeting Father Hong Seong-nam is always a delight. His words are raw, stripped of their outer layers. His books, "You Must Shed Your Skin to Live," "Stop Being a Good Person," "Get Angry When You're Angry, Rest When You're Tired," "I'm a Better Person Than You Think," and "How to Heal Yourself," differ significantly from the typical psychological therapy books. He unapologetically exposes the wounds of his infinitely small youth, even exposing religious taboos. For this reason, he's been called a "Catholic Cider" and a "psychotherapist who vents his frustrations." In a conservative Catholic world, he, too, dreamed of perfection in his youth. He must have strived to be a rigid priest. But now, he's more flexible, more humorous, more cheerful, and more humorous. "What would happen if you lived in a suit all day? Being conscious of others, constantly worrying about what they think, would quickly lead to burnout. It's normal for children to dress up nicely when meeting friends of the opposite sex, only to return home and throw their clothes down and sprawl out. It's not a matter of appearance or substance." He says, "Each person's dark energy can only be released through appropriate deviance. Even if you're upright in front of others, you need time to let loose when you're alone." Just as excretion is as important as eating for physical health, he says emotional release is just as important as learning for mental health. For men who cling to the obsession that "men shed tears three times in their lives" and must grit their teeth even when facing hardship, Father Hong advises them to "don't worry and cry." He boldly defies the common wisdom that mental health requires "emptying your greed and being content." He recommends, "If you've been poor since childhood and have a strong desire for deprivation, first fulfill that desire." #FatherHongSeongNam #PsychologicalCounseling #SpiritualityAndPsychology ---------------------------- Jo Hyun TV Hyusimjeong Jo Hyun, Religion Reporter, Hankyoreh Newspaper [email protected] What do you desire? Lots of money, high status, solid power, good family and friends, joy and happiness. When you become wise with an open attitude, many things are granted as a bonus. Hyusimjeong is a place where you can let go of religion, ideology, stereotypes, and prejudice, open your heart, learn, become wise and mature, and find happiness for yourself and others. The wisdom to accept what cannot be changed, and the courage to change what can! *Jo Hyun TV Hyusimjeong does not apply for YouTube advertising, so it does not generate revenue. Therefore, it is created through the talent donations of interviewers, interviewees, filmers, and editors. (Jo Hyun mostly interviews with her phone mounted on a tripod, so please excuse any imperfections in the audio and other aspects.) **The interview article is available at Hyusimjeong (well.hani.co.kr). Subscribe to Jo Hyun on Naver News (naver.me/F5uVPaKk) to receive Jo Hyun's articles. **Supporting the Hankyoreh (support.hani.co.kr) or subscribing to the newspaper would be a great help. (If you've donated, please contact me by email. If you'd like to subscribe to the Hankyoreh, please contact me by email. Jo Hyun's email is [email protected].) May you be healthy and happy! May you be loved and respected! May you be a creator of a beautiful world!