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Digital Detox and the Value of the 'Present': For modern people who feel anxious constantly comparing their present with the future (success) of others via social media, the message to close the 'barrier of today' and focus solely on one's own life serves as the best solution for protecting mental health. Visualization of Emotions and Problem Solving: The attitude of writing down and analyzing vague feelings of "anxiety" or "failure" aligns precisely with the core principles of modern Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Simply gathering objective 'facts' without getting consumed by emotions can resolve a significant portion of anxiety. Separating the Controllable from the Uncontrollable: Carnegie advises willingly accepting what has already happened or the gaze of others that one cannot change. Instead, the advice to focus energy on 'one's own actions' that one can change right now is the key to stress management.