Truth about Sex On Your Wedding Night with Nika Diwa and Emeka |Episode 182, Heart of Dating Podcast

Ever fantasized about what your wedding night might be like? Maybe you were excited or maybe even scared. Today, Nika Diwa and Emeka join Kait and JJ to talk about the truth of your wedding night, how to expect the unexpected and let the Holy Spirit guide you. #wedding #weddingnight #podcast #marriage #relationship #datingadvice #datingcoach #sex #truth #truthaboutmarriage #single #singles #expectationvsreality #expectations #unexpected #christiandatingadvice #christiandating #christianmarriage #christianmarriageadvice #anxiety #fear #trauma #ptsd #nikadiwa -------------------- TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Intro 06:19 Who are Nika and Emeka?! 08:40 The night JJ met Nika and Emeka - Emeka's Perspective 10:42 The night JJ met Nika and Emeka - Nika's Perspective 19:55 Let’s start by setting the stage. What were your expectations about your sex on your wedding night? 26:50 What actually happened on your wedding night? Was it mind blowing, crazy, hot sex? 34:00 Let’s talk about the reality of ANXIETY and FEAR on your wedding night… and afterwards in sex. 49:57 Let’s talk about the PTSD that can come up for someone who have a past of abuse. Because of various narratives in the church-Women often feel they have to sit through sexual experiences that they are NOT ready for and don’t want to be in… BUT because in some church cultures there is a stigma in the church in ways that a woman should just “please their husband” they feel like they NEED to have sex with their husbands. 57:05 What would you say to people who may be feeling nervous about how long it may take to enjoy sex and connection with their spouse? Or maybe it’s genuinely painful, or past trauma coming up. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon!   / heartofdating   Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resourc... Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resourc... Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!   / heartofdatingpodcast   Come hang with us on the gram:   / heartofdating     / kaitness   https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?h... . . . . . A quick thank you to some of our friends! Better Help: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to https://betterhelp.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we’d love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating We love hearing from you! Drop a comment to tell us what spoke to you in this episode. If you have any topics or questions you'd like us to dive into in future episodes, drop them in the comments as well, and we'll work hard to tackle them!