Why You Can’t Stop Finding Something Wrong With the Person You’re Seeing

Work With Maria: https://clarity.resetforlove.com/?utm... Discover your relationship pattern: https://patternfinder.resetforlove.co... They're kind, they show up for you, and somehow all you can focus on is the one thing that's wrong. This video unpacks why perfectionism shows up in love (when it doesn't really show up anywhere else), where the pattern actually comes from, and how to shift it before it costs you another great relationship. About Maria Vino Maria Vino is a hypnotherapist, ICF-certified coach, and founder of Reset for Love. She helps high-achieving, self-aware people who've done the work but still find themselves stuck in the same relationship patterns. If you can solve almost any problem but can't seem to crack the code on love, this channel is for you. Chapters 0:00 Why do you fixate on the one flaw when everything else is great? 1:02 What's the real difference between high standards and perfectionism? 2:52 How do "problem-colored glasses" sabotage love? 4:00 Where does this perfectionism actually come from? 5:12 How does perfectionism quietly end good relationships? 6:40 How do you actually shift this pattern? 8:22 What does love feel like once perfectionism is gone?