Jor-El Caraballo on Red Flags, Daddy Issues & Healing Black Masculinity | xoMAN Podcast

Licensed therapist Jor-El Caraballo (@jorelcaraballo) joins host Kiara Walker (@kikisaidso) on the xoMAN Podcast to break down masculinity, fatherhood, therapy, and emotional healing. In this powerful conversation, Jor-El shares his expertise on relationships, boundaries, parental wounds, hustle culture, and what it truly means to live with purpose. What We Cover in This Episode: Jor-El’s path to therapy and purpose-driven work Red Flag, Green Flag dating scenarios and his expert takes Daddy issues, mommy issues & how they impact men in adulthood Why hustle culture harms emotional health Tools for self-care, boundaries, and healthier relationships Subscribe to our YouTube channel:    / xonecoletv   Get more xoNecole: Website: https://www.xonecole.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xonecole/?h... TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdSPJWSC/ Twitter:   / xonecole   Facebook:   / xonecole   Become inbox official & subscribe to our newsletter for your daily empowerment fix! https://www.xonecole.com/st/SignUp    / xonecoletv   ⏰ Chapters: 00:00:00 - Intro Trailer 00:02:09 - Guest Introduction 00:03:17 - Interview Begins 00:03:57 - Red Flag, Green Flag Game 00:08:24 - Discussion on Relationships 00:16:14 - Behind the Man and Redefining Masculinity Segment Begins 00:16:53 - Discussion on Fatherhood and Masculinity 00:21:06 - Exploring Daddy Issues 00:26:00 - Exploring Mommy Issues 00:28:30 - Dealing with Parental Denial and Setting Boundaries 00:31:43 - Setting Boundaries with Parents 00:34:12 - Exploring Parental Absence and Emotional Presence 00:39:22 - Reasons for Seeking Therapy 00:40:32 - The Stigma of Therapy and Self-Help 00:43:24 - The Role of Shame in Men's Lives 00:45:00 - Hustle Culture and its Effects 00:47:23 - Exploring Self-Identity 00:49:01 - Supporting Men in their Journey 00:50:52 - Signs of Genuine Change 00:57:27 - Discussion on Romantic Relationships 01:01:05 - Setting Boundaries in Relationships 01:03:18 - Weaponizing Therapy Talk 01:05:39 - Misuse of Therapy Terms on Social Media 01:07:02 - Misunderstanding of Narcissism 01:12:50 - Should You Pursue Relationships While Working on Personal Issues 01:16:23 - Staying Together for the Kids 01:18:06 - Difficulty Expressing Love and Happiness 01:19:33 - Discussion on Dating and Fear of Rejection 01:27:59 - The Importance of Communication in Relationships 01:30:19 - Hot Takes on Therapy and Personal Growth 01:31:16 - Advice Segment Begins 01:35:33 - Recognizing When to Walk Away from a Relationship 01:37:00 - Closing Remarks and Guest Appreciation 01:37:36 - Promotion of Guest's Services and Products 01:38:56 - Podcast Conclusion and Host Sign-off