ep.28 Toxic Relationships & Boundaries w/ Christina P. | Ask Kati Anything!

Today's guest is Christina P., a stand-up comedian, writer, TV personality & host of the WHERE MY MOMS AT!? podcast. It's the show by the Moms for the Moms. An open place to admit no one really knows what they're doing. WATCH ON YOUTUBE here:    / christinacomedy   ITunes https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/t... http://christinaponline.com/about Twitter @christinap Instagram TheChristinaP Facebook   / thechristinap   Audience questions: 1) Opinions on not wanting a previously absent, neglectful, and sometimes abusive parent ever in your life again? Is it okay to not accept the love and presence that they are now offering? I want her to stay away because it's too late and frankly I don't NEED it. People seem to be struggling with the guilt and all but I personally don't think I feel bad at all. I think I've just resented her too much. 2) I'd be curious to hear both Kati's clinical perspective and Christina's comedian perspective for this question: Why do so many comedians/artists have mental health 'issues'? And which came first, the mental health abnormality or the art? Or is it a matter of personality? Inquiring minds would love to know any thoughts or insight as I know many artists either struggle with some form of mental health issue (myself included) or have had brain trauma of some sort, and I find this interesting... 3) Hi, Kati.. + mommy ✌🏼 I’m a 29-year-old, single parent. I adopted two children from foster care. They came to me at 6 and 8 and were adopted at ages 10 and 12. I love them with my entire body, and wouldn’t change any of the decisions I’ve made... but I don’t consider myself a “real” mom. I don’t feel like a mom or have that biological, maternal instinct... 4) How healthy is it for people to be "best friends" with their moms? And at different ages, i.e. when they're still minors and growing up OR when they're both adults. 5) I would love to hear about Christina’s experience of having a mother with BPD (as I do too), and if she has any tips for healing and/or detaching. JOURNALING CLUB Every Tuesday & Friday Kati posts a journal prompt to help keep you motivated and working on yourself! https://www.youtube.com/katimorton/join Ordering Kati's book Are u ok? http://bit.ly/2s0mULy Kati's Amazon Suggestions: https://www.amazon.com/shop/katimorton ONLINE THERAPY I do not currently offer online therapy. BetterHelp can connect you with a licensed, online counselor, please visit: https://tryonlinetherapy.com/katimorton I receive commissions on referrals to BetterHelp. I only recommend services I know and trust. PATREON Do you want to help me support the creation of mental health videos? https://www.katimorton.com/kati-morto... Opinions That Don't Matter! (2nd podcast) video:    / @askkatianything   audio: https://opionstdm.buzzsprout.com/ BUSINESS EMAIL [email protected] MAIL PO Box #665 1223 Wilshire Blvd. Santa Monica, CA 90403 PLEASE READ If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call a local emergency telephone number or go immediately to the nearest emergency room.