奪う人と奪われる人の心理と違い/奪われない対処3つと共に解説

What do those who take from others want? What do those who have their interests stolen from them want? Knowing this difference will help you understand. I am a licensed mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, and I specialize in advising HSPs. I receive approximately 100 comments and inquiries every day. To date, I've answered the concerns of over 3,000 people. --Subscribe to my channel here ▶   / @cocoyowa   Why should people who want recognition avoid those who are only interested in profit? Make sure you understand this. The reason you're surrounded by dishonest people is because they want your approval. I've explained it in detail. ーーGet even more insight into psychology and life through exclusive videos, and receive daily words of inspiration. Join YouTube here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A community for highly sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ーーCocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆Learn from experts with HSP traits and interact with fellow members. First, learn self-esteem improvement exercises, then build relationships with confidence. This is a hybrid community of learning and interaction, perfect for those who have struggled with relationships. We also hold various events and regular live performances. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Consultation, HSP Lifestyle Information, and Consultation Services ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Friendship and Consultation Service for HSPs [HSP Textbook] Over 6,000 subscribers to date. A weekly email newsletter with 20,000-50,000 characters of information about HSPs, HSS-type HSPs, and HSEs. Various content is available, including exclusive live shows, exclusive radio shows, exclusive videos, and a consultation form. Please also use this newsletter if you would like to discuss your concerns with Ryota. He will explain each issue in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSPs, such as work or family-related issues, are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. --Click here for details and registration: ↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Winner of the 2020 MaguMagu Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Winner of the 2021 MagMag by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Books for HSPs (3 books published) ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest: Amazon "How Sensitive People Speak: Relieve Mental Fatigue" https://amzn.asia/d/fWSf2NS ▼Amazon "I've Decided to Stop Being Controlled"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▼Table of Contents▼ 0:00 Today's Theme 0:37 ① People who take pursue profit 2:52 ② People who are taken from want to be recognized 4:48 ③ People who give are Anpanman 7:11 ④ People who take are Baikinman 9:09 Solution ①: Look at the other person carefully 11:48 Solution ②: People who take don't give 13:54 Solution 3: Cherish the good people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● "No more taking advantage of me!" 7 ways to deal with sneaky people who steal from you    • 「もう都合よく利用されない!」人から奪う、ずるいタイプへの立ち向かい方7選   ● Especially for HSPs, avoid these! 7 traits of sneaky people you won't want to interact with    • HSPは特に避けたい!関わり損なずるい人の特徴7選   ● "Now I can relax!" 7 ways to spot bad people / Avoid sneaky people with these tips https://you tu.be/Qy0MhrppZ_0 ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles worth reading ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● A blog to help HSPs and sensitive people live better lives https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Summary of HSP diagnostic tests: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Recommended job-changing services for HSPs: "Partial interview accompaniment, same-day resignation support, etc." https://cocoyowa.com /hsp/change-of-job-2/ ● [Archival Edition] Job Selection Strategies for HSPs / Explained with 10 Suitable Occupations https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/shigoto-erabi/ ● Points to Know About Your Next Career After a Short-Term Job Turnover for HSPs https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/short-term-t... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle/Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ●Official LINE https://lin.ee/so730kn ●LINEVOOM (Short Video List) https://linevoom.line.me/user/_dfZM5V... ※Music stock site "SuzukazeNote" is here https://ryota.site/suzukazenote/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender studies, etc. during college (Bachelor of Arts). He himself is a severe HSP, and has experienced five job changes and relationship difficulties. I hold multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. I am also a father of two. ・I run "The HSP Textbook," a consultation service for HSPs and a resource for lifestyle advice. ・My books...

【迎合は禁止】不機嫌をぶつけてくる人の心理と対処法3選/なぜ機嫌が悪いのに近寄って来るのか?
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【迎合は禁止】不機嫌をぶつけてくる人の心理と対処法3選/なぜ機嫌が悪いのに近寄って来るのか?

「最後には捨てられる?」奪う人に尽くしてはいけない理由7選
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「最後には捨てられる?」奪う人に尽くしてはいけない理由7選

舐められやすい、面倒な人に近寄られやすいあなたへ/自分を守る7つの気づき・方法
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舐められやすい、面倒な人に近寄られやすいあなたへ/自分を守る7つの気づき・方法

How to Strengthen Your Mind
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How to Strengthen Your Mind

【身近に1人はいる】監視・過干渉の人の心理と対処法3選/あなたを放置できない人たちの共通点
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【身近に1人はいる】監視・過干渉の人の心理と対処法3選/あなたを放置できない人たちの共通点

なぜあの人は意地悪ばかりするのか|攻撃されない自分になる方法
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なぜあの人は意地悪ばかりするのか|攻撃されない自分になる方法

[The most tiring opponent] The psychology of pushy people and 3 ways to deal with them / Are you ...
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[The most tiring opponent] The psychology of pushy people and 3 ways to deal with them / Are you ...

休んでも治らない“うつ病”の本当の原因はトラウマです|改善法を心理学的に解説
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休んでも治らない“うつ病”の本当の原因はトラウマです|改善法を心理学的に解説

HSPs should distance themselves from "takers." 7 concrete ways
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HSPs should distance themselves from "takers." 7 concrete ways

[Psychology] This is the reaction that sneaky people hate the most! 7 secrets to making yourself ...
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[Psychology] This is the reaction that sneaky people hate the most! 7 secrets to making yourself ...

優しい人が舐められる本当の理由|舐めてくる人の正体
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優しい人が舐められる本当の理由|舐めてくる人の正体

「つい腹が立っちゃう!」失礼な人との向き合い方7つ
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「つい腹が立っちゃう!」失礼な人との向き合い方7つ

"I won't take advantage of you anymore!" 7 ways to deal with sneaky people who take from you
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"I won't take advantage of you anymore!" 7 ways to deal with sneaky people who take from you

The psychology of people who corner others with their rational arguments | Developmental disorder...
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The psychology of people who corner others with their rational arguments | Developmental disorder...

"A must-read for those who are easily hurt!" 7 ways to repel mean and emotionally abusive people ...
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"A must-read for those who are easily hurt!" 7 ways to repel mean and emotionally abusive people ...

【嫉妬を認めたくない人】は他人攻撃するヤバい人になります。嫉妬は大切なサイン。自分の本音に気づくチャンスを失わないで!
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【嫉妬を認めたくない人】は他人攻撃するヤバい人になります。嫉妬は大切なサイン。自分の本音に気づくチャンスを失わないで!

職場で嫌われがちな老害のタイプ TOP5
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職場で嫌われがちな老害のタイプ TOP5

1人の採用ミスで組織崩壊のリスクがある。絶対に採用してはいけない地獄級社員の特徴教えます。
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1人の採用ミスで組織崩壊のリスクがある。絶対に採用してはいけない地獄級社員の特徴教えます。

「人に嫌われたかも…」と悩むHSPさんへ/人の機嫌で左右されない自分を作る7つの方法
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「人に嫌われたかも…」と悩むHSPさんへ/人の機嫌で左右されない自分を作る7つの方法

正しい親の心持ち|行き詰まった子供が自分から寄ってくる親であれ。
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正しい親の心持ち|行き詰まった子供が自分から寄ってくる親であれ。