「孤独」に飲み込まれるか、使いこなすか。湯山玲子の“予定詰め込み”生存戦略と、岩井志麻子の「他人の無茶振り」全乗り術(肉乃小路ニクヨ×岩井志麻子×湯山玲子)#2

▼Video Summary "It would be empty to spend my whole life staring at the numbers in the bank. But I don't know how to live a luxurious life." A heartfelt question from a man in his 60s, borne out of a life lived with integrity. Nikunokoji Nikuyo, Iwai Shimako, and Yuyama Reiko's strong personalities tackle this feeling of stagnation head-on! After devoting myself to my company and pursuing cost-effectiveness and timeliness, I'm left with an empty calendar. Reiko Yuyama even goes so far as to declare, "Leaving things to nature is the scariest thing of all," a survival strategy for forcibly filling empty time. And Shimako's pioneering technique involves deliberately refusing to accept "unreasonable demands from others" in order to gain a perspective she doesn't have. You can't take money with you to the afterlife, but you can take memories with you. Never give up on yourself, and keep on hoping. Even if you have extra money, you can just give it to someone else. A philosophy for refusing to "wither" and continuing to fiercely renew yourself until the very end. ▼Cast Profile Nikuyo Nikunokoji New Lady/Columnist/YouTuber/Quiz Lady She began cross-dressing in 1996 while attending Keio University. In 1999, she won the title of Miss DIVA JAPAN at the national drag queen competition, DIVA JAPAN, and has since worked as a showgirl. She primarily worked in banking and insurance companies. Drawing on her struggles as a sexual minority in her youth, as well as the insightful personalities she developed as a showgirl, gay bar hostess, and company employee, she discusses economics, money, love, lifestyle, and more. Related Accounts ・YouTube Channel    / @japanesedragqueen6817   ・X Account https://x.com/nikuchang294 Shimako Iwai Born in Okayama Prefecture in 1964. As a high school student, she won an honorable mention in the 3rd Junior Short Story Newcomer Award. After a period as a young writer, she began her writing career full-time at the age of 22. She has received numerous literary awards as a horror writer, including the 6th Japan Horror Novel Award in 1999 for "Bokkee, Kyotee" (Kadokawa Shoten), the 13th Yamamoto Shugoro Prize in 2000 for the same work, and the 2nd Fujin Koron Literary Award in 2002 for "Chai Koi" (Chuokoron-Shinsha). In December 2013, "Chai Koi" was made into a long-awaited film. Her unconventional remarks and personal life have made her one of the most talked-about authors today, making her an object of admiration for women around the world. Related Accounts ・X (former Twitter account) Shimako Iwai staff [Manager] https://x.com/shimakonoheya Reiko Yuyama Born in Tokyo. Graduated from the Faculty of Law at Gakushuin University. Writer, producer, and chatty culture monster. Her works include "Woman Sushi Alone" (Gentosha Bunko), "Women in Cross-Dressing" (Shincho Shinsho), and "Over Forty! (Kadokawa Bunko), a collection of conversations with Chizuko Ueno, "Pleasure First! Life After 3/11" (Gentosha), "The Life of a Cultured Girl" (Yamato Shobo), "Before Complicating Men" (Kadokawa Bunko), etc. She is the founder of "Bijin Sushi," a performance show where she makes sushi herself, and "Bakukura," which proposes new ways of listening to classical music. She also works as a designer and producer for the Shop Channel fashion brand "OJOU." Her father is composer Akira Yuyama. The online salon, Reiko Yuyama Culture Club "Reading Club for Bad Kids," is now open! Monthly readings featuring books from the perspective of "bad kids" who question conventional wisdom, and extracurricular activities include art appreciation. Discover new contexts through the noise Reiko Yuyama throws at you. https://t.co/7y702y8BTQ #NikunoKojiNikuyo #ShimakoIwai #ReikoYuyama

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