the pain of choosing yourself when it means losing people you love
hey, I'm Safiyyah, I grew up in a toxic, emotionally neglectful home with no example of what high standards, self worth or healthy relationships looked like. I had to figure it all out alone. this channel is everything I needed growing up. I post long form videos on standards, self worth, relationships, healing and becoming the woman you were always meant to be, for the girl who had to grow up too fast and is still figuring it out. if you're ready to go deeper, I created Becoming Her, a full guide on standards, boundaries and self worth that will change how you move, who you let in and how you see yourself. hundreds of girls have already changed their lives, become a part of the movement. comment HER below or click the link to get it 👇 https://stan.store/Safiyyahfatimah

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