CIÚMES EXCESSIVO DO BEBÊ, COMO LIDAR? | MACETES DE MÃE

Check out my book: "Pregnant and Practical - A No-Nonsense Guide for First-Time Moms"! Amazon: https://amzn.to/2S6NI8P Online sales with delivery throughout Brazil. Today's video was suggested by the lovely Priscila Pietrowski. She told me she feels uncontrollable jealousy of her baby and doesn't believe anyone can take as good care of him as she can, and wanted to learn how to work through this feeling. 1. WHY DOES JEALOUSY ARISE? This happens because the feeling she has at this moment is, in a way, one of loss (a strong feeling of loss). Loss? Yes! Before, during pregnancy, the baby was 100% dependent on her. Immediately after birth, she has to share it with other people, no matter how dear they are. 2. WHICH WOMEN CAN DEVELOP THIS FEELING? Any woman can develop this type of feeling. There are no restrictions. 3. HOW TO KNOW IF JEALOUSY IS BECOMING EXCESSIVE? The mother begins to have the following thoughts and feelings: "So-and-so won't touch my baby. I won't let so-and-so hold my child. I don't want anyone giving advice. I don't want help." 4. IS IT WRONG TO FEEL THIS? Rationally, we know there's no need to have this feeling, much less to harbor it. But of course, rationality doesn't always work, and any unhealthy feeling can and should be forgiven. 5. HOW TO DEAL WITH JEALOUSY? Ideally, the mother should identify the feeling, name it ("I'm jealous"), try to think rationally about it ("do I really need to feel this way?"), and forgive herself. Asking some simple, even rational, questions can help a lot. And then, practice detachment from the baby. Another important tip is to talk about the feeling with someone she trusts. Especially when the mother realizes it's not just a little jealousy. AND THE FAMILY? HOW SHOULD THEY ACT? If she sets some rules, it's crucial that everyone respects them, including the husband. To receive notifications of new videos, turn on notifications (by clicking the bell). Check out other videos you'll enjoy: ANGUISH AND SEPARATION PHASE    • FASE DA ANGÚSTIA DA SEPARAÇÃO - MACETES DE...   8 TIPS FOR DEALING WITH TANTRUMS    • 8 DICAS PARA LIDAR COM A BIRRA - MACETES D...   CHILDREN WHO HIT AND BITE - HOW TO ACT    • CRIANÇAS QUE BATEM E MORDEM, COMO AGIR? | ...   www.macetesdemae.com facebook.com/macetesdemae instagram.com/macetesdemae twitter.com/macetesdemae pinterest.com/macetesdemae Production: http://www.laranjaazul.com.br Makeup: @nanyferreiramakeup Music by Epidemic Sound (http://www.epidemicsound.com) Footage by Videoblocks (https://www.videoblocks.com) and Envato Elements (https://elements.envato.com/curated)