This Is How Kids Learn to Hide Who They Are
Most parents think they're raising confident kids. What they're actually raising is a child who learned that being loved and being themselves aren't always the same thing. If your kid fears disappointing you, you may never meet the real them. This video explains how love withdrawal and conditional love quietly shape a child afraid to disappoint, leading to people pleasing and an unstable identity. Learn the signs and how to raise a child who knows who they truly are. ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ & ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐: Love Withdrawal & Neural Processing โ Huffmeijer, R., et al. (2014). "Love withdrawal predicts electrocortical responses to emotional faces with performance feedback." BMC Neuroscience, 15, 68. https://bmcneurosci.biomedcentral.com... The Fawn Response & Complex PTSD โ Walker, P. (2013). Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving. Psychcentral. https://psychcentral.com/health/fawn-... Social Media & Adolescent Identity Development โ Avci, H., Baams, L., & Kretschmer, T. (2024). "A Systematic Review of Social Media Use and Adolescent Identity Development." Adolescent Research Review, 10(2), 219โ236. https://link.springer.com/article/10.... Polyvagal Theory & Nervous System Regulation โ Porges, S.W. (2022). "Polyvagal Theory: A Science of Safety." Frontiers in Integrative Neuroscience, 16, 871227. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti... ๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ธ๐ถ๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐น๐. ๐ฆ๐๐ฏ๐๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ฆ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ธ๐ผ ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐ ๐ ย ย ย /ย @stickoexplainsย ย On Sticko Explains, we break down real parenting chaos, child behavior, and emotional struggles with humor, honesty, and simple strategies that actually work in real life. No guilt, no perfection, just relatable moments and insights that help parents understand whatโs really going on behind the scenes. ๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐: ๐ ย ย ย โขย Child'sย Playย ย ๐ ย ย ย โขย Toddlerย Talkย ย ๐ ย ย ย โขย Teenย Talkย ย ๐ ย ย ย โขย Newย Parentย &ย Babyย ย ๐ ย ย ย โขย Stickoย Explains:ย Lifeย Tips,ย Mindsetย &ย Moreย ย ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐: โช@EmmaHubbardโฌ โช@toddlerscanreadโฌ โช@ParentingHacksโฌ โช@Kee0111โฌ โช@AskDanielWongโฌ #peoplepleasing #parenting #conditionallove #childpsychology #emotionalneglect #mentalhealth #parentingtips #raisingkids ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐: This video is intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional or medical advice. Always consult a qualified expert for personalised guidance regarding health, parenting, child development, or any other professional concerns. Viewers are encouraged to use their own judgment and seek trusted support when making decisions. ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐ค ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐๐ญ๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ , ๐ฆ๐๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐๐ฅ๐ค ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ฒ. ๐ Parenting books I recommend are listed in the product shelf above.
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