ARE YOU MAD AT ME? What rejection sensitivity really feels like (and how to deal with it)

In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, we’re diving into rejection sensitivity — what it actually is, where it comes from, and how it shows up in real life. From spiraling over a single text message to assuming the worst when someone says “can we talk?”, Rox opens up about how rejection sensitivity has impacted her relationships, career, and mental health. Rich offers his perspective as someone who doesn’t experience it in the same way — but lives with someone who really does. We talk about disavowed anger, childhood wounds, confrontation fears, and the little things that can make a big difference when you’re wired to feel unsafe. Whether you’re the one asking “are you mad at me?” or living with someone who does — this one’s for you.

WHY BEING “NICE” IS MAKING YOU MISERABLE: How to stop people pleasing and finally put yourself first
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WHY BEING “NICE” IS MAKING YOU MISERABLE: How to stop people pleasing and finally put yourself first

SURVIVING BURNOUT: What happens when your body finally says no
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SURVIVING BURNOUT: What happens when your body finally says no

Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria and Rumination in Relationships
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Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria and Rumination in Relationships

SEXPECTATIONS: The pressure, the shame, and the reality of sex in long-term relationships
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SEXPECTATIONS: The pressure, the shame, and the reality of sex in long-term relationships

ADHD Love: The Worst Part Of ADHD & The 60% Likely Relationship Stat You Need To Know
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ADHD Love: The Worst Part Of ADHD & The 60% Likely Relationship Stat You Need To Know

UNMASKING: The neurodivergent identity crisis hidden behind a lifetime of pretending
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UNMASKING: The neurodivergent identity crisis hidden behind a lifetime of pretending

Rejection Sensitivity: The Real Reason You're Struggling in Relationships
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Rejection Sensitivity: The Real Reason You're Struggling in Relationships

PEOPLE PLEASER REHAB: 10 challenges to finally put yourself first
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PEOPLE PLEASER REHAB: 10 challenges to finally put yourself first

FALLING IN LOVE: Farting, freaking out, and finding your person
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FALLING IN LOVE: Farting, freaking out, and finding your person

Rich & Rox (ADHD Love) FINALLY open up about Autism, Arguments + ADHD Confusions!
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Rich & Rox (ADHD Love) FINALLY open up about Autism, Arguments + ADHD Confusions!

BOUNDARIES, BABY: Why you feel burnt out, resentful, and overwhelmed (and how to change it)
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BOUNDARIES, BABY: Why you feel burnt out, resentful, and overwhelmed (and how to change it)

LATE DIAGNOSED ADHD: The hidden cost of going undiagnosed for most of your life
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LATE DIAGNOSED ADHD: The hidden cost of going undiagnosed for most of your life

How to Solve Rejection Sensitivity (3 easy solutions to live without fear ✨)
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How to Solve Rejection Sensitivity (3 easy solutions to live without fear ✨)

AUTISM TRANSLATION GUIDE: 10 things partners need to understand
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AUTISM TRANSLATION GUIDE: 10 things partners need to understand

ANTI-SOCIAL BUTTERFLY: The neurodivergent urge to never leave the house
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ANTI-SOCIAL BUTTERFLY: The neurodivergent urge to never leave the house

If You Want More From Someone Who’s Not Ready DO NOT CHASE Do THIS Instead
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If You Want More From Someone Who’s Not Ready DO NOT CHASE Do THIS Instead

Life Advice That Sounds Good But Will Destroy You
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Life Advice That Sounds Good But Will Destroy You

THE 5 NEURODIVERGENT LOVE LANGUAGES: ADHD, autism, and why a clean kitchen is romantic
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THE 5 NEURODIVERGENT LOVE LANGUAGES: ADHD, autism, and why a clean kitchen is romantic

Nobody Has Manners Anymore… And It Shows
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Nobody Has Manners Anymore… And It Shows

LATE BLOOMERS: Why it's never too late to re-write your story
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LATE BLOOMERS: Why it's never too late to re-write your story