The 3 Main Reasons NOT to Adopt

Listen, I know this is a touchy topic. I know inevitably this is going to upset some people who may hit the targeted demographic that I'm talking about here. I hope people can see, however, that I am not trying to shame people for wanting to adopt for the wrong reasons (except the narcissists), I'm simply trying to educate on it and hopefully prevent it from continuing, even if only a little. My main goal is that you get something out of this, that maybe your perspective is a bit broader now, and that you ponder what I have said. You do not have to agree with most anything I say except that the adopted children's needs and happiness are the MOST important aspect of adoption. That is non-negotiable. I also sincerely hope this can be refreshing to any adoptees who may be too weary to speak up about this themselves. I understand how you feel and I want you to know you matter, you are worthy of love, respect, and safety. I hope everyone is taking good care of themselves during such a universally difficult time in history. Later homies, Plam PS Some research links if interested: ~Adopted Related issues and effects:~ https://centerforanxietydisorders.com... https://www.theatlantic.com/health/ar... https://ifstudies.org/blog/the-adopti... ~About Hana and the Stauffers:~ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_o... https://www.insider.com/myka-stauffer...