Как наши установки мешают нам жить нормально | Нина Зверева #ХорошиеВопросы

#ninazvereva #relationships #familyisdone It's easy to give advice, especially when it's unsolicited! It's easy to judge someone else's life and principles! It's easy to look at other people's lives and think, "Is that even possible?!" Trying to understand the logic behind another person's actions is much more difficult, but all the more valuable and interesting! This episode of "Good Questions" is for those who try to look at life from different perspectives and believe that everyone has the right to their own rules. 00:00 - Introduction 01:05 - Many cultures traditionally live together in multiple generations. Why do you think an adult son shouldn't live with his or her parents? 11:45 - How can you tell if an adult child really needs a year off after college, and what should you do if the parents can't afford to support them? 18:30 - If parents aren't prepared to care for their children themselves and delegate their care to others, then why have them? Doesn't this make parents and children emotionally distant? 29:15 - Can a nanny really care for a child better than biological parents? Why do you think so? 34:20 - Why do your comments about childcare assistants sometimes sound dismissive of the nanny profession? 38:20 - Should you apologize to an adult child for parenting mistakes if you once thought you were doing the right thing? 49:10 - How should you respond to an intoxicated adult son's aggression and demands? Should you call the police, and how can you deal with the guilt afterwards? 53:20 - What is the basis for your advice? Do you think popular psychology sometimes ruins relationships between loved ones? 01:01:30 - How can I refuse to help with my grandchildren due to health reasons so that my children don't perceive it as a lack of love? 01:06:20 - Doesn't a real family involve mutual help and support during difficult times? Why do you consider it normal for loved ones to refuse to help? 01:15:20 - Why compare the work of a young mother with the work of professional specialists? Don't such comparisons provoke conflicts and inflated expectations in families? ✅ Buy the book "The Zvereva Method" https://alpinabook.ru/catalog/book-me... ✅ Sign up for Nina Zvereva's free intensive course "Skills of a Happy Person": https://zvereva-online.ru/intensive_y... ✅ More information about the "Your Nina Zvereva" community here: https://ninazvereva.ru/club ✅ Follow Nina Zvereva on VK https://vk.com/ninazvereva Follow Nina Zvereva on Telegram: https://t.me/ninazvereva