I Can't, He Can: Finding Freedom Through Surrender - John Ortberg - Romans 7:14-25

In this powerful message, Pastor John explores the paradox of true freedom—discovering that surrender, not control, is the path to liberation. Drawing from the wisdom of the 12 Steps and Scripture, he unpacks how admitting our powerlessness (Step 1), believing in a Higher Power (Step 2), and surrendering our will to God (Step 3) can transform our lives. Whether you’re wrestling with addiction, shame, or just the daily struggle of "why do I do what I don’t want to do?" (Romans 7:15), this sermon offers a practical, hope-filled roadmap to freedom in Christ. Key Points: The Human Struggle with Powerlessness We often know what’s right but lack the power to do it (Romans 7:15-20). Like the tenants in Jesus’ parables, we resist surrender, thinking we can control outcomes. 1. Step 1: Admit We’re Powerless True transformation begins when we stop pretending we’re in control. Addiction, sin, and brokenness reveal our need for something greater than willpower. 2. Step 2: Believe in a Higher Power God is "able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine" (Ephesians 3:20). Examples from Scripture (David, the Israelites, Jesus’ miracles) show God’s power to redeem. 3. Step 3: Surrender Our Will to God Jesus’ invitation: "Deny yourself, take up your cross, and follow Me" (Mark 8:34). Surrender isn’t weakness—it’s trading our limited control for God’s unlimited strength. The Gift of Desperation Like the prodigal son or the woman caught in adultery, hitting rock bottom can lead us to grace. AA’s insight: "Your mess is your message"—God meets us in our rawest moments. Key Scriptures: Romans 7:15-20 – The battle between our desires and actions. Mark 8:34 – Jesus’ call to surrender. Ephesians 3:20 – God’s limitless power. Psalm 118:22 – The rejected stone becomes the cornerstone. John 8:36 – "If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed." Reflection Questions: 1. Where in my life am I trying to “manage” things on my own, instead of surrendering to God? 2. What would it look like to take Step 1 today—to admit I’m powerless over ______? 3. How has God shown His power in my past struggles? If this message resonated with you, let us know in the comments! For more on the 12 Steps and discipleship, check out our resources below. #FreedomInChrist #Surrender #12Steps #Faith #Recovery #Grace #Sermon