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00:00 Moments When You Are Jealous Even Though You Didn't Brag 02:12 Why You Are More Wavering When Someone Close to You Succeeds 03:50 The Psychology of Jealousy from Someone Who Underestimated You 05:00 Why Jealous People Pry into Information and Copy 05:48 Why Quiet and Kind People Are More Jealous 07:16 Characteristics of People Who Jealous Even About Your Personality 08:15 Why You Shouldn't Lower Yourself in Front of a Jealous Person 09:25 Jealous Tone of Voice Pretending to Be Concerned or Giving Advice 10:11 How to Set Boundaries for Jealous People 12:21 Don't Let Others' Inferiorities Dim Your Light ✨Have you ever had someone's tone suddenly turn cold even though you haven't really bragged about anything? If someone's face hardens the moment you receive praise, if they look for flaws before congratulating you when something good happens, or if you feel strangely kept in check even though you were just quietly doing your own work, it might not simply be because you are being overly sensitive. Jealousy is not always openly displayed. Sometimes it appears as concern, sounds like advice, or passes by like a joke. However, hidden beneath those words is often a desire to drag the other person down again, rather than a genuine intention to support them. In this video, we discuss why you receive jealousy even when you aren't boasting, why jealous people pry into information and imitate others without acknowledging it, and how to quietly set boundaries in front of such people. This video is not intended to diagnose or criticize specific individuals. It is a psychological discussion aimed at understanding recurring emotional patterns within relationships and freeing you from unnecessary self-blame. 📖 References and Psychological Basis This video is structured based on social comparison theory, cognitive dissonance theory, the self-evaluation maintenance model, and psychological research regarding jealousy and social devaluation. People tend to compare themselves to those similar to them when verifying their standing, and their self-evaluation can waver when someone close to them or in a similar position receives recognition. Furthermore, jealousy can go beyond simple envy and lead to devaluation, cynical reactions, and subtle sabotage. It may appear as concern, sound like advice, or simply pass by like a joke. Leon Festinger, “A Theory of Social Comparison Processes,” 1954. Leon Festinger, A Theory of Cognitive Dissonance, 1957. Abraham Tesser, “Toward a Self-Evaluation Maintenance Model of Social Behavior,” 1988. Richard H. Smith & Sung Hee Kim, “Comprehending Envy,” 2007. Michelle K. Duffy, Kristin L. Scott, Jason D. Shaw, Bennett J. Tepper & Karl Aquino, “A Social Context Model of Envy and Social Undermining,” 2012. ※ This video was produced based on information and examples intended to aid in a general understanding of psychology, and interpretations may vary depending on individual experiences and situations. ※ This video does not assert or guarantee the outcome of a specific relationship or the psychology of the other party; actual judgments and choices should be made cautiously based on one's own circumstances. #Psychology #JealousyPsychology #InterpersonalPsychology #RelationshipPsychology #InferiorityComplex #SocialComparison #CognitiveDissonance #Psychoanalysis