Weaponized Incompetence Isn’t Just a Man Problem (LDS Marriage Talk)

Online LDS spaces are blowing up again — this time over “weaponized incompetence.” One viral reel claims men pretend to be bad at chores so their wives will just do everything. Another calls for more mercy toward people stepping away from the Church. Both reels sparked a lot of heat, and tonight we’re cutting through the noise with straight talk. In this Salty Saints livestream, we address: Is “weaponized incompetence” really just a guy thing, or does it go both ways? How passive aggression and “hint dropping” show up in marriages — from both husbands and wives Why a divorced relationship “expert” lecturing men on competence feels off What the Family Proclamation actually teaches about equal partners, different roles, and helping one another When husbands should step up more around the house (especially in dual-income homes) How mercy and accountability can both exist in the Church without throwing stones Keep the conversation going: https://strengthofdads.com/