『秒でスルー』否定や批判が「驚くほどどうでもよくなる」戦い方を解説

"Ah, that one stinging comment bothers me..." You've probably experienced this before. A word that hurts. There's a proper way to fight back against negativity and criticism. It's a waste of energy to even waste it on the other person in the first place. Tips for not taking things too seriously. How to perceive others. I'll tell you all about it. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ -- Over 100 exclusive videos to learn about family, parent-child relationships, and human relationships + daily words of insight. Join YouTube here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Theme 00:33 How to Perceive Hurtful Comments 02:41 Don't Have the Energy to Argue No good 05:02 Sarcasm and negativity are evidence of dissatisfaction 06:53 For those who still can't brush it off 08:49 If you're a soft-spoken person, this isn't acceptable 11:19 How to interpret it as a child's opinion 13:43 The other person doesn't have anything in the first place 16:22 Summary: Think of the other person as small ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Consultation and Learning Service "Coco Magazine" ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Coco Magazine ⇒ A service where you can learn more about human relationships and receive advice] We've also released an exclusive e-book. If you want to learn with Ryota, please take a look. For more details, please visit: https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/8557/in... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Coco-Tale ⇒ Sign up for free and receive comforting words at least twice a month] We're giving away a limited-edition article on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. For more details, please see: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━    • 【心が未成熟】批判ばかりの人の心理と対処法/最終的にたどる人生の末路と共に解説      • 【距離を取るべき】全否定する人の心理と末路/あなたを認められない理由がこれ!      • 【良心ゼロ】平気で人を傷つけるマイルドサイコパスの特徴7選/無自覚なハラスメント・人...   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━ ━━━━━━━ ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ★Click here for his new book, "The Book of the Friendly Lone Wolf" https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B0FJWV1G5Z ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts and Blog ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●Ryota's Lifestyle and Column Blog https://brweb.jp/ ●A Blog to Help Highly Sensitive People and Highly Sensitive People Live Better [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Learn from the Morning) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Talks about Lifestyle, Lifestyle, and Mental Health) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. He is a licensed mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, and has acquired interpersonal skills from working in manufacturing and teaching for over 15 years. He also leverages his university studies of music healing, psychology, and ethics to start a counseling business. He currently writes and communicates, primarily about interpersonal issues. ●Click here for detailed profile information https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is dedicated to discussing your concerns and solving them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor. Thank you for your understanding. Disclaimers and other information are also listed in the channel description. Please take a look. Thank you for your support. #Relationships #Psychology #Conversation

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