Stay With the Narcissist or Process the Abuse

According to the narcissist's shared fantasy, you're not being traumatically abused, brainwashed, etc. Only according to reality are those things taking place. So as long as you stay in a fantasy world, you don't have to face the reality of how utterly poorly you've been treated. Only by breaking away is the abuse able to make itself known to you as abuse, which then allows you to process it. ------------------------------ www.coachdavidades.com ------------------------------ Mark Beare's fantastic (and free) book on the practice of freeing yourself from the narcissist's shared fantasy after discard. Start at page 91: https://archive.org/details/asrcomple... ------------------------------ #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #lifecoaching