The Cost of Buying a House You Can’t Afford

Everybody today seems to have a house, a renovation, a driveway full of cars… and a lot of people tend to wonder: “How are they doing it?” And maybe the bigger question: “Am I supposed to be doing it too?” Rabbi Eliezer Gewertzman speaks very honestly about the pressure people feel around money, buying homes, keeping up appearances, and living within your means. There were moments during this interview where you could feel the room get quiet. I think a lot of people know exactly what he’s talking about. Listen closely and enjoy. A special thank you to the Lakewood Resource and Referral Center who put together this wonderful home-buying event. LRRC provides clear guidance, hands-on assistance, advocacy, education, and case management for thousands of households dealing with the basics of life. Visit https://www.lrrcenter.org/ to learn more. 👉 ✬ SPONSORS OF EPISODE 113 ✬ ► APPROVED FUNDING – Shmuel Shayowitz of Approved Funding is the guy you want to speak with before making a major mortgage decision. Buying, refinancing, using home equity, or trying to figure out if now is the right time to make a move? Shmuel brings 25+ years of experience and thousands of consultations, but what stands out most is his honesty and guidance. Many people he’s spoken with were actually guided to solutions that had nothing to do with him getting their mortgage. His focus is giving you the right advice, not just closing a loan. Visit https://ApprovedFunding.com/KosherMoney ► BITBEAN – Your custom software solution with incredible talent at a fraction of the price it used to be. Learn more at https://bitbean.link/4edg53 ► GOLD STAR MECHANICAL – This is a trusted HVAC company located in the Five Towns, serving Long Island, and New York City. I know because I (Eli) used them! Super service and terrific work. They do repairs, installs, and preventative maintenance for everything from rooftop units to central air systems. New preventative maintenance customers can save 10% off their first year, with custom plans and pricing based on your building, number of units, and system needs. Mention my name when you call 516-246-5252 or email [email protected]. A really great team. Visit https://goldstarmechanical.com/ to learn more. Enjoy! ► COLEL CHABAD – Feeding families in Israel since 1788. Make a difference today: https://ColelChabad.org/KosherMoney ✬ Helpful Resources ✬ • Living Smarter Jewish brings free financial coaching to families: https://livingsmarterjewish.org/ • Kosher Debt Help – Honest, agenda-free help if you’re in debt: https://www.kosherdebthelp.com/ ► PAINTBRUSH – Turn a special photo into a real hand-painted oil painting on canvas. Not printed. Not AI. An actual artist recreates your photo brushstroke by brushstroke. It could be a Zaidy, Savta, Rebbe, parent, spouse, wedding photo, or any treasured memory. They work from almost any picture, even old, blurry, or black-and-white photos, and you approve a preview before it ships so there are no surprises. These paintings make incredible gifts for birthdays, anniversaries, Yom Tov, or l’zecher nishmas. As a Kosher Money listener, you get $75 off any order with code KOSHERBRUSH. Visit https://paintbrushstudio.com/ and check out the before-and-after gallery. ► Hachzek - I've been telling everyone about Artscroll's Pele Yoeitz sefer. You can get it for free at time of episode release by visiting https://www.hachzek.com/ and clicking on the Pele Yoeitz tab. This sefer is life-changing. Join Hachzek, with Hashem's help, and get started! ► LIVING SMARTER JEWISH – Free financial coaching and guidance for the frum community. Whether you need help budgeting, managing debt, planning ahead, or making smarter financial decisions, their team has helped thousands of families take control of their finances. Visit https://LivingSmarterJewish.org/ to learn more. Follow Kosher Money on TikTok & Instagram: @koshermoneypod Visit our website: https://www.livinglchaim.com/ Call-in Hotline: USA 605-477-2100 | UK 0333-366-0154 | Israel 079-579-5088 WhatsApp feedback: 1-914-222-5513 #KosherMoney #RabbiEliezerGewertzman #JewishMoney #FrumFinance #BuyingAHome #JewishHomeBuying #MortgageAdvice #FinancialPressure #LivingWithinYourMeans #DebtAwareness #JewishLife #FrumLife #Budgeting #PersonalFinance #ShalomBayis #JewishPodcast #TorahPerspective #Lakewood #EliLanger #KM