Wie gehen wir mit pädophilen Menschen um? | Wie bestimmt Sexualität mein Leben? Folge 3

CN: This film is about pedophilia. If you are or have been affected by abuse yourself, you can find further information and support here: https://www.hilfeportal-missbrauch.de "I am a pedophile." – Imagine a friend coming out with this statement. How would you react? The topic of pedophilia is still a huge taboo in our society – almost none of those affected dare to speak about it publicly. This is also because pedophilia is often equated with child abuse – even though only a very small minority of pedophiles become perpetrators. Pedophiles often suffer greatly from being viewed as monsters by society. Frank wants to address this taboo and meets with Ruby and Sirius. They are pedophiles – and have been a couple for a year and a half. How do they deal with their pedophilia? Are they afraid of becoming perpetrators? And what would they want when dealing with pedophilia? We know that this topic is very emotional and that many of you will find it very difficult to empathize with those affected. However, please remain respectful and polite and try to imagine what kind of reaction you would want if you came out – because people don't choose their inclinations. If you suspect you are a pedophile or would like to learn more about the topic, check out "Kein Täter werden": https://www.kein-taeter-werden.de/ The treatments there are free, anonymous, and confidential. You can find Sirius and Ruby's website here: https://wir-sind-auch-menschen.de 00:00 - 01:40 Welcome 01:40 - 02:27 Can pedophiles have a relationship? 02:27 - 02:53 How do you know if you are a pedophile? 02:53 - 03:52 What fantasies do pedophiles have? 03:52 - 05:10 What do you do if you're a pedophile? 05:10 - 05:55 Do pedophiles watch images of abuse, i.e., child pornography? 05:55 - 06:30 How do pedophiles prevent attacks? 06:30 - 07:07 How do pedophiles think about crimes? 07:07 - 07:50 How common is pedophilia? 07:50 - 09:13 Do pedophiles need therapy? 09:13 - 09:58 How do you treat pedophilia? 09:58 - 10:45 How do you live out pedophilia? 10:45 - 11:00 Do you suffer from your pedophilia? 11:00 - 12:52 Reactions to pedophiles 12:52 - 14:21 Do pedophiles always commit abuse? 14:21 - 15:20 Coming out as a pedophile 15:20 - 16:50 Forum for pedophiles 16:50 - 17:20 Working as a child care worker if you are a pedophile? 17:20 - 18:33 Are pedophiles dangerous? 18:33 - 20:20 Should pedophilia become more socially acceptable? 20:20 - 23:28 Homepage about pedophilia Episode 3 of the question: How does sexuality determine our lives? Here's the playlist with all episodes:    • Wie bestimmt Sexualität mein Leben?   If you want to learn more about Frank, here's his Instagram account:   / f_cybert   Reporter: Frank Seibert Writer: Julia Schuster Camera: Markus Valley, Jacqueline Hofer, Viktor Veress, and Louisa Ehmann Editing: Markus Valley, Philipp Güttinger Voice-over: Verena Fiebiger Community Management: Kim Stoppert, Katharina Geschier, Sarah Sliwa Editors: Florian Meyer-Hawranek, Teresa Fries This is The Question: There are these big, tricky questions that have no easy answers: Why do we bully? Why do we let animals suffer? Do we drink too much? Or: What does porn do to us? My team and I are interested in questions that directly relate to our lives, but also topics that are important to all of us and are often only discussed superficially. We search for answers to these questions, week after week – openly, honestly, and independently. We don't meet experts for this, but rather get involved: at the slaughterhouse, at a swinger party, while proselytizing in the pedestrian zone. And because we want to gain insight into as many perspectives as possible in our search, we always spend several weeks on a question. Ultimately, we want to provide an answer, even if it's not easy for us. With every video – but especially in the discussions with you – we get a little closer to answering the big, tricky questions. The Question on Facebook:   / diefrage   The Question on Instagram:   / diefrage_offiziell   ───────────────────────────── YEAH! We're also part of #funk. Check it out: YouTube:    / funkofficial   WebApp: https://go.funk.net Facebook:   / funk   Instagram:   / funk   https://go.funk.net/impressum funk is a joint offering of the German Broadcasting Corporations (ARD) and ZDF.