Инста-курсы отношений и самооценки, история Дуа Липы, научные теории отношений и здравый смысл

In this video, we explore the mistakes of popular women's courses, the myth of "he'll truly love someone else," and the story of Dua Lipa and Callum Turner's wedding. I'll share my opinion on all of these topics. 0:00 — Introduction 1:37 — The whole truth about women's self-esteem courses 3:22 — Differences between scientific and everyday (everyday) psychology | Neuroticism in relationships 5:52 — The main problem with instapsychology | personalization 6:57 — Impact on self-esteem | narcissistic injury 14:52 — Cognitive decentralization | the essence of women's courses 17:37 — Why do these ideas sell so well | defining your own worth, romantic myths, comparing relationships 22:07 — R. Sternberg's three-component theory of love | intimacy, passion, commitment 25:22 — What does the expression "were not compatible" mean? 28:22 — The desire to change or change your partner | Romantic fusion 30:57 — Discussion of Dua Lipa's case | Finding the right partner 37:57 — My motivation for recording this video | The importance of being yourself, rationality 39:12 — Pros and cons of women's courses | The importance of context 42:12 — Readiness for a relationship Follow me on social media: My Instagram:   / babybaryyy   My Telegram channel about psychology: https://t.me/psychologybybarbara