How to Stay Connected When Teens Pull Away | Episode 220

Are you struggling to connect with your teenager in the digital age? Dr. Gabor Maté and Dr. Gordon Neufeld join Reena & Dr. Lisa to reveal groundbreaking insights into parent-child relationships, tech addiction, and the secret to maintaining a strong bond during the challenging teen years. Discover the neuroscience of attachment, the dangers of digital devices, and how to create a warm, supportive environment that helps teens thrive. This episode is a must-listen for any parent feeling lost or frustrated in the parenting journey. We want to hear from you! What's your biggest challenge in connecting with your teenager? Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers: https://neufeldinstitute.org/resource... ‪@drgabormate9132‬ ‪@neufeldinstitute‬ ________________ “Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens and Teens” is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Check out our Ask Lisa Podcast Playlists. Binge specific topics like Raising Sons, Staying Connected to Your Teen:    / @asklisapodcast   Subscribe on YouTube and follow us on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn: @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan Check out Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/ "Ask Lisa" is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com ________________ A word from our lawyers: The advice provided on this podcast does not constitute or serve as a substitute for professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention. If you have concerns about your child’s well being, consult a physician or mental health professional. If you’re looking for additional resources, check out Lisa’s website: https://drlisadamour.com/ ________________ Episode Timestamps: 00:00 - Cracking the code of teenage disconnection 01:37 - Why strong adult relationships are your child's superpower 04:11 - Peer vs. parental attachment: The battle for your teen's heart 06:06 - Actionable strategies to save your parent-child bond 07:32 - Reattaching the psychological umbilical cord 10:01 - Rebuilding trust with your teen 11:46 - How mealtime can transform your relationship 12:59 - Attachment as your parenting superweapon 15:52 - The dangers of “helicopter parenting” 21:38 - Navigating digital media with your teen 24:00 - Reconnecting when all seems lost 25:17 - Examining a meaningful quote from the book 27:40 - Digital Media: Protecting your family's emotional health 31:13 - Parenting to Go: The biggest teen parenting challenge ________________ Episode Keywords: attachment, digital addiction, neuroscience, family relationships, communication, social media, parenting tips, dr gordon neufeld, dr gabor maté, hold on to your kids Show Keywords: ask lisa podcast, dr. lisa damour, reena ninan, psychology, parenting, podcast, teens, tweens, parenting teens, parenting tweens, teen parenting, tween parenting, parenting tips, parenting advice, positive parenting, parenting podcast, teen behavior, tween challenges, raising tweens, raising teens, parenting hacks, parenting help, family dynamics, kids podcast, mental health, teen mental health, attachment styles, emotional intelligence