Inside the Mind of a Perpetrator | Part One ft. Cindie Henrie (video)

Originally uploaded: May 29, 2025 In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Board Certified Expert in Traumatic Stress Treatment, LMFT, and BCETS, Cindie Henrie joins us to explore the psychology behind sexual abuse and survival. Cindie shares her experience working with high-risk youth, sex offenders, trafficking survivors, and the LGBTQIA+ community, offering a rare and honest look at the “why” behind predatory behavior. Together, we unpack how perpetrators often carry their own trauma and project it onto their victims, how survivors internalize abuse, and she introduces the "Trauma Triangle". A model in psychology of the victim, rescuer, and perpetrator that keeps people stuck in painful cycles. If you've ever found yourself asking, "Why did this happen?" this episode will help you start making sense of it. Strap in, this is a good one. Cheers! Los Angeles Therapy Network: ⁠https://www.latherapynetwork.com/⁠ Get Educated: ⁠www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence⁠ Check out our website: ⁠WhatTheyDontSay.com⁠ Got questions? Have an episode idea? Send us an email: [email protected] Instagram: ⁠www.instagram.com/whattheydontsayofficial/⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠www.tiktok.com/@whattheydontsayofficial⁠ If you or someone you know has been sexually assaulted and needs support: 1-800-656-4573 (National Sexual Assault Hotline)