【注意しよう】人を愛する能力のない人の特徴/あなたが大切にされない理由を解説
"No matter how hard I try, they never cherish me..." Maybe you are acting like someone who cannot love others. Some people just cannot cherish others. You may be able to cherish others in the future, but... It is difficult at the moment. For example, if you are treated like an possession. You are not treated like a person, but like a machine. Just like not being grateful to a vacuum cleaner, you are not appreciated because you are not treated like a person. I have talked about specific things that will help you realize this. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Cocoleter ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We are giving away limited articles on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. More details here: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Theme 00:40 ① No matter what you do, they won't acknowledge you 03:15 ② Want to control people 05:27 ③ Think of people as possessions 07:59 ④ Use people or backgrounds as shields 1 0:52 ⑤ I don't have the energy to direct it at others 14:33 ⑥ I receive but I don't give 16:52 ⑦ No one else, only looking at myself 20:29 Summary: What I want you to remember in particular ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Limited videos that reveal the worries of families, parents and children, and couples, all available to watch + receive words of awareness every day YouTube Membership Click here to join ▶ / @cocoyowa ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to live a little more relaxed while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related and educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[Caution] The hidden truth of people who can never love others / What is the cause hidden deep in their hearts? • 【要注意】人を決して愛せない人の隠された真実/心の深層に潜む原因とは? ● [Inside the mind of a selfish person] The psychology of being trapped in narcissism and 7 reasons why "self-first" behavior occurs • 【身勝手な人の頭の中】自己愛に囚われる心理と「自分優先」の行動が生まれる理由7選 ● [No more polite smiles!] 7 points on how to be liked by others/What do people who attract others around them keep in mind? • 【愛想笑いは卒業!】人に好かれる方法7ポイント/周りに人が集まる人が意識していることとは? ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSP and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of each diagnostic test for HSP: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●[Archived version] What to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The ultimate solo technique. When you're having trouble with relationships, try living as a "friendly lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, according to a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, a relaxed lifestyle) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Qualified as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through 15 years of parallel work from manufacturing to teaching, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, he started a counseling business. Currently, he mainly communicates and works as a writer about human relationship problems. ●Click here for profile details https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about your problems and aims to solve them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor. Please understand. Please also see the channel description. #relationships #love #psychology
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『うかつに話すな!』私生活を他人に教えてはいけない7つの理由/安全な生活を自分で守ろう

実はつらい…HSS型HSPが人に理解されにくい理由7選【繊細なのに行動的】

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【愛着障害/承認欲求】愛着障害の「人を愛せない原因」とは?【心理カウンセラー・南ユウタ】
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【大人の知恵】人間関係の上手な人が実践する、身の守り方7選/安心感を自分で作り出そう
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