Женская враждебность в сценарии нелюбимой дочери. Зависть

00:01 Haste and procrastination. Postponement and fuss. Someone bad nearby. 12:08 Views of the Adriatic from above. A walk along the waterfront in the Marche region. 13:22 Envy of a good mood. 13:35 A confrontation with a sociopath. Toxicity on the sly. 15:31 Working through psychological trauma. Gaslighting relatives. A mother's hidden hostility. 16:53 Signs of envy, hidden hostility, and resentment. Hypocrisy. 17:15 What's wrong with the staff. Insider information. 19:12 Escaping a toxic system. 20:37 Noticing hostility and continuing to enjoy the present. To live through the hurtful realization and not fall into chronic resentment and paranoia 23:33 Dubai flair 23:49 Who I was in a past life 24:09 What's familiar is not valued. What's yours is devalued 24:23 Seagulls eat from your hand I'm afraid that if I react to disrespect and stop the insolence, I won't be accepted, judged, ridiculed, rejected. And that's painful. Living with the pain is unbearable. It's better for me to adapt and suppress the painful understanding. It's better to stop seeing, hearing, noticing—to become dull, forgetful, confused, and misunderstanding, to not trust myself. It's better to believe in my faulty perception and my poor memory than in a bad relationship. Or believe in my "incompleteness" and perfect myself to the point of perfection. Admitting myself as strange, suspicious, and demanding, so as to ignore unfair rudeness, neglect, and merciless indifference... If I become comfortable, weak, sick, or asexual, I can exist. Otherwise, the pain of existence is unbearable. My defense will be suppressing the pain—an unwavering smile, as if saying, "Be nicer to me." Or a physical ailment requiring attention and care, or an attempt to gain the love of others, which stems from a desire to be loved by my own mother. The pattern of denying maternal hostility becomes chronic. Subsequently, you become accustomed to "ignoring" toxicity, exploitation, envy, veiled rudeness, and disrespect. You become accustomed to swallowing other people's aggression, channeling unexpressed anger inward. Psychologist Svetlana Rambelli Online counseling terms and conditions are in the channel description. ATTENTION! I only accept requests for a course of five WEEKLY consultations or more. Only if you are willing to allow yourself one hour a week for five weeks of privacy, the opportunity to communicate unhurriedly, and dedicate time only to yourself (children are not distracting you or the therapist, your phone is set to vibrate, you have asked loved ones not to intrude and to be respectful of the session, and any extraneous contacts and errands are set aside) will you see results. A session spent in between tasks, with distractions, is guaranteed to disappoint not only you but me as well. Requests exceed my time capacity, so I view rushed meetings, lack of forethought, forced reminders about prepayment, frequent lateness, and rescheduling as disinterest and a devaluation of my efforts. In these cases, we say goodbye, and I give the space to clients who are more in need of my qualified assistance. My website: svetlanarambelly.com #psychology #adriaticsea #france #italy #separation #travel