Como fazer uma relação durar? IA namora? Bebês que não choram | Psiletter #005

Three news stories from this week, three silences that are often interpreted as adaptation, when they may be saying something else. The three-year-old child who doesn't cry at daycare and seems "adorable." The wife who has watched her husband sleeping on the other side of the bed for ten years. The adult who talks to a chatbot until the early hours of the morning and feels it's the best moment of their day. I comment on three studies published this week (Turkish daycare with the Tavistock method, viral letter in The Guardian, and a study from Lund University on companionship chatbots) in light of Winnicott: false self, the capacity to be alone in the presence of another, and the transitional object. ═══════════════════════════════════ CHAPTERS ═══════════════════════════════════ 00:00 This week's three questions 00:58 News item 1: The child who doesn't cry in Nursery 04:21 Winnicott and the false self 05:13 News item 2: Husband sleeps 10 hours a night 09:14 Capacity to be alone in the presence of another 10:30 News item 3: Emotional bond with AI chatbots 13:53 Why the chatbot is "too perfect" 15:55 Adult transitional object 18:48 The thread connecting the three news items SOURCES CITED IN THIS EPISODE ═══════════════════════════════════ • International Journal of Early Childhood (Turkish study with (Tavistock method): https://link.springer.com/content/pdf... • The Guardian, Leading Questions column, Eleanor Gordon-Smith: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandst... • Lund University, article on companion chatbots: https://lup.lub.lu.se/search/files/24... #psychoanalysis #winnicott #relationships #falseself #coupletherapy #mentalhealth #psiletter #selfthread #chatgpt #childhoodeducation 🎯 ABOUT ME I am Thiago Nascimento, Winnicottian-oriented psychoanalyst, couples therapist, and PhD candidate in Psychology at USP. Here on the channel, you'll understand what your emotional history does to you, and what to do with it in your relationships, in your clinical practice, and on your path. I see individuals and couples therapists in Pinheiros, São Paulo, and online. Website: https://www.tnascimento.com.br Instagram: @tnascimento ✏ PSILETTER, THREAD OF SELF If you feel overwhelmed with so much information, I organize it for you. I created the weekly Psiletter, Thread of Self. I curate topics on relationships, psychology, clinical practice, human development, and psychoanalysis. Every week with 3 to 5 relevant and hand-picked news items and studies, with commentary and theoretical grounding, articulating science and everyday life through psychoanalysis. Sign up for the complete and exclusive material in your email: https://thiagonascimentopsi.substack.... 📚 FOR THERAPISTS AND PSYCHOLOGY STUDENTS If you are a therapist and your schedule isn't full, you're probably making mistakes that are driving patients away, even if you're a good professional. It's not a lack of technique. It's something more subtle: the way you position yourself, communicate, and allow yourself to exist in the market. I've compiled the 7 most common mistakes that drive patients away from competent therapists... and how to correct each one. 👉 Access here: https://www.tnascimento.com.br/ebook7... If you are starting to see patients or want to structure the beginning of your practice with more confidence, check out the Guide to Starting Therapy: 👉 Access here: https://guia.tnascimento.com.br/