Doğduğun ev kaderin mi, bahanen mi? (Psikolog Cihan Çelik konuğumuz)

This week on GZT Alfa, our guest was Psychologist Cihan Çelik! In this episode, we discussed human "software," the innate temperament and character codes, the impact of the family environment on personality development, and the impact of the love we receive (or don't receive) as children on our lives. Why do some children grow up completely unloved yet still happy? Why do siblings growing up in the same home become completely different people? Can someone who says, "My parents didn't love me," ever recover? Can excessive love also be a trauma? The dilemma of modern parenting: Children who are obeyed but aren't happy... The traumas we experience as children, neglected feelings, and incomplete love... Do these things really shape our adulthood? Is the saying, "Your home is your destiny," true, or are we using it as excuses for our lives? This and more is now available in this episode! Watch now and share your thoughts with us ❤️ 00:00 Introduction 00:45 How do childhood traumas affect adulthood? 03:20 Is the home you're born into your destiny? 07:55 How do parental arguments affect children? 12:10 Is it a good approach to walk away to avoid arguing in front of your children? 13:50 Is it healthy for a child to be in control at home? 15:15 How can parents maintain balance between siblings? 19:45 Is a lack of parental love a deficiency that can be compensated for in later life? 24:10 To what extent does a child's character determine their attitude toward the choices they face? 30:10 Can mental disorders also occur in children? 33:20 Is it problematic for parents to have different approaches toward their children? 35:20 What should people first improve in themselves before becoming parents? 38:00 What are the effects of divorce on children's mental health? You're on GZT Alfa 📣 Every week, we bring you interviews with leading figures in their fields 🤓 At GZT Alfa, we engage in in-depth conversations with prominent figures in their fields who inspire and differentiate themselves with their knowledge. Our goal is to both inspire and inform our audience by presenting the experts' world of thought and their unique perspectives on their fields. Each episode focuses on a different perspective and theme, and we don't just ask questions but also delve into the topics in depth. If you'd like to experience an experience filled with previously unspoken details, join us every week with a leading figure in a different field! Join us Instagram:   / gzt_alfa   Twitter: https://x.com/gzt_alfa