i'm breaking up with my dream life

I’ve spent the last year documenting 'Design My Dream Life' and I did exactly that. I got my dream role. I officially became a creator. I took myself, and my future, seriously and I got results. But by February, I realised I’d wrapped too much of my identity in performance disguised as progress. So much so, that stepping away started to feel like failure. Michaela Coel’s words are so real: don’t be afraid to disappear for a while and see what returns when you stop performing. I did that over the past two months and that has led me here. So yes, I’m breaking up with my dream life. Not because I don’t want it, but because I want to continue to build it without the pressure of being watched. I hope you stay for the ride! necklace: https://go.shopmy.us/p-51431542 where to find me:   / judithlola_     / judithlola_   follow the trendgeist https://thetrendgeist.substack.com/   / thetrendgeist   If you're curious about what it takes to become more chronically cultured, hit subscribe and follow my journey as I continue to design my life on my terms! tags #dreamlife #changeyourlife #glowup #selfdiscovery #2026 change your life, self development, self help, self improvement, glow up, glow up tips , how to glow up, how to, how to change your life in 12 months, how to change your life, tips to change your life, fashion, trends, style, creative strategist, entrepreneur, entrepreneurial journey, dream life,