【人生の後半戦】歳を重ねたら人間関係を手放した方がいい理由とは?我慢の限界と「いらない付き合い」を解説

"Is it better to let go of relationships as I get older?" We'll answer that question. Relationships often drag on for a long time. Think about your current partner, not your past partner. In fact, there are cases where compatibility has actually become surprisingly poor. If you're not careful with the people you associate with, you'll lose a lot of time. We've talked about how this leads to being more selective in your relationships. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ -- Watch exclusive videos to learn more about family, parent-child relationships, and human relationships, plus receive daily words of insight. YouTube Membership here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Theme: Why It's Better to Let Go of Relationships as You Get Older 00:35 Reason 1: The Number of People You Don't Care About Increases 02:30 Reason 2 You'll start to see the limits of time. 04:31 Reason 3: Your values ​​become fixed. 06:43 Reason 4: You've been pushed around enough. 09:34 Reason 5: Your compatibility becomes clearer. 12:16 Reason 6: There's less need to pretend to separate. 15:06 Reason 7: You can start looking for someone to meet now. 17:30 Summary: Reduce the small hassles. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Consultation and Learning Service "Coco Magazine" ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Coco Magazine ⇒ A service where you can learn more about relationships and get advice] An exclusive e-book is also available. If you'd like to learn with Ryota, please check it out. For more details, please visit: https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/8557/in... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Kokoreta ⇒ Sign up for free and receive heartwarming words at least twice a month] Get a free exclusive article on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. For more details, please see: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━    • 【時間は有限】歳をとってからの人生で大事なこと7選/残りの時間をどう使いますか?      • 【否定で悩む時間はない】歳を取ってからの人間関係はこれが大事!否定や押し付けに振り回...      • 【限られた時間を守れ】歳を取ってからの人間関係で必要な7つのこと/よりドライに考える...   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━ ━━━━━━━ ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ★Click here for his new book, "The Book of the Friendly Lone Wolf" https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/B0FJWV1G5Z ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts and Blog ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●Ryota's Lifestyle and Column Blog https://brweb.jp/ ●A Blog to Help Highly Sensitive People and Highly Sensitive People Live Better [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Learn from the Morning) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Talks about Lifestyle, Lifestyle, and Mental Health) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. He is a licensed mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, and has acquired interpersonal skills from working in manufacturing and teaching for over 15 years. He also leverages his university studies of music healing, psychology, and ethics to start a counseling business. He currently writes and communicates, primarily about interpersonal issues. ●Click here for detailed profile information https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is dedicated to discussing your concerns and solving them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor. Thank you for your understanding. Disclaimers and other information are also listed in the channel description. Please take a look. Thank you for your support. #Relationships #40s #InterpersonalRelationships

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