How to Build Community and Make Friends Anywhere You Live

Bethany Roth is a military spouse who has mastered the art of building community no matter where life takes her. Since I'm a military spouse, too, we both dig into what it really means to create belonging in new places and why kindness is the foundation of any strong community. I hope this conversation leaves you feeling inspired to reach out, show up, and invest in the people around you. If you’re new here, I’m Shannon Leyko—host of the top-charting podcast (Paring Down)! My goal is to help you to feel less stressed inside your home by decluttering AND enjoy life by focusing on the essentials. ❤️ Paring Down Newsletter, The L.E.S.S. Express: (https://shannonleyko.com/decluttering...) Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@shannonleyko (⁠  / shannonleyko  ) “What’s Your Decluttering Type” QUIZ: (https://shannonleyko.com/decluttering...) FULL SHOW NOTES: (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...) Paring Down Resources: (https://shannonleyko.com/the-declutte...) Free Decluttering Checklist Free 15 Questions to Ask Yourself to Make Decluttering Easy Free 20 Decluttering Roadblocks (with advice for each) Free 10 Life-Changing Decluttering Hacks ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠- Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Gift Request Template SPONSORS: Get 10% off your first order of OSEA skincare (sitewide) with code PARING at ⁠OSEAMalibu.com⁠ (https://oseamalibu.com/) $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier:⁠⁠⁠⁠ (https://airdoctorpro.com/) -⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code PARING 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier: (https://aquatruwater.com/) - use promo code PARING Go to BornShoes.com today for a 15% discount plus free ground shipping on all full- price shoes when you use my promo code, PARING. (https://www.bornshoes.com/) Only $2.99 per meal from Every Plate + free breakfast for life: ⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠ - CODE: paring299 (https://www.everyplate.com/pages/podcast) 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠(https://www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm...) Ethical, luxury women's clothing from Quince ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠(https://Quince.com/paring)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠... for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! Wayfair - Find furniture, decor, and essentials that fit your unique style and budget. ⁠(https://www.wayfair.com/⁠) 15% off oneskin.co/PARING with code PARING (https://www.oneskin.co/?utm_source=po...)

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