'if they wanted to, they would' is a MYTH

are you a believer in the phrase, if they wanted to, they would’ or ‘if he wanted to, he would’? i used to be, too. in this video i talk about why the phrase lacks nuance and is incomplete and how you can reframe your thinking around it. if the goal is to have a healthy relationship, communication should be a top priority. stay fly, angels 🪽✨ ----------------------------- ☆ ------------------------------ s o c i a l s instagram: https://www.instagram.com/texirra?igs... closure playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1Xw... ----------------------------- ☆ ------------------------------ c h a p t e r s 0:00 intro 1:48 if he wanted to he would, defined 2:12 valentines day storytimes 5:00 the mindset is incomplete 7:57 i want to, but i don’t 9:22 my experience 10:42 a better phrase in my opinion 12:14 outro ----------------------------- ☆ ------------------------------ m u s i c querida - cornelio underneath the marquee - guy trevino and friends mabel - clara mendes lover of my dreams - gamma skies ----------------------------- ☆ ------------------------------ F A Q how old are you? 22 what camera/mic do you use? sony zv1f / sony dcr-sx63 (handycam) / rode wireless go II what editor do you use? final cut pro where do you find your music? epidemic sound ----------------------------- ☆ ------------------------------ t a g s self-growth, anxious attachment, if he wanted to he would, if they won’t someone else will, relationships, love, healthy relationships, self-love, single life, advice, dating myths, dating, personal growth, empowerment, communication, self-improvement, navigating heartbreak, trusting the process, breaking up and getting back together, reframing relationships, omg you’re still reading this heeeyyyy subs ➫ 1,974 ☻ business inquiries 💌 [email protected]