Your Family Is Pulling Away and You Don't Know Why

Free Call 👉 https://calendly.com/theobstacleremover ok if you're watching this things at home are probably pretty bad right now. your wife's pulling away, the kids got quiet and careful around you, maybe the word divorce already came up, and the part that really messes with you is you don't even know how you turned into this guy i lived it. i didn't deal with my own stuff for years and it cost me my family, so i'm not standing over you talking down at you, i went through the same thing most of it comes back to trauma. childhood stuff you probably quit thinking about a long time ago, still running you, still making you overreact and shut down and get angry over things that shouldn't be a big deal. and it's doing to the family you built the same thing it did to the one you grew up in in this one i get into why your reactions blow up so much bigger than the moment, the one belief sitting under all of it, what a bunch of old wisdom traditions all say about the pain you've been burying, and then five things you can actually start doing instead of laying there at night wondering whats wrong with you i work with men one on one on this exact thing. if something hit you while you were watching thats not random, thats the part of you thats ready. the call's free, link's right up at the top, no pitch, we just talk and figure out if its your time CHAPTERS 0:00 If your family is pulling away and you don't know why 1:13 Watching the people you love flinch around you 2:37 You're not a bad man 3:04 Why your reactions are telling on you 4:16 My story: an alcoholic dad and confusing love 6:41 The coping identity you built as a kid 7:05 How your childhood wound is destroying your family 7:45 Your pain as a curriculum (the spiritual reframe) 8:46 What 5 wisdom traditions say about buried pain 11:38 Can you see it in your own life now? 13:04 The 5 steps to start healing 15:59 How I work with men one on one 17:30 The truth underneath the old story