【必見】HSPさんが人の不機嫌に振り回されない方法／機嫌を取らず、苦手な人に近寄らない日々にしよう！

"I get swayed and confused by other people's bad moods..." There are probably many HSPs like that. I think that sometimes we think too much about the other person's feelings, and end up replacing ourselves with the cause. But that means we continue to be swayed by people in a bad mood. People in a bad mood can't cheer themselves up. How should we deal with such people? How should we think about them? I've talked about it in detail. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ [Cocoleter ⇒ Register for free to receive comforting words at least twice a month] We're giving away a limited article on steps to living as a friendly lone wolf. For details, see: https://coco-letter.theletter.jp/post... ▼Table of Contents▼ 00:00 Today's Theme 00:39 ① Don't blame yourself for the problem 02:36 ② Leave the situation quickly 04:59 ③ Leave the other person's problems to them 07:15 ④ Take it as a surprise 09: 47 ⑤ Have the premise that you will not try to please the other person 12:59 ⑥ Being in a bad mood is normal for the other person 15:14 ⑦ Get other people involved 17:31 Summary: What you should especially remember ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ YouTube Membership ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Limited videos that will help you understand the problems of families, parents and children, and couples, all available to watch + receive words of awareness every day YouTube Membership is Click here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼New book Amazon "I decided to live a little more relaxed while remaining serious" (Seishun Publishing) https://amzn.asia/d/07bMpqpY ▼Amazon "I decided to stop being manipulated" https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●[Tiring people] 7 types of relationships not recommended for HSPs / What types of people feel better when they keep their distance?    • 【疲れる相手】HSPにおすすめしない人間関係7選／距離を取るとラクになるタイプとは？   ●7 ways of thinking about "ignoring people" that exhausted HSPs should try    • ヘトヘトHSPさんに試して欲しい、「人を放置する」考え方7選   ●"To not lose sight of yourself!" Why you should stop pandering to others and trying to please them    • 「自分を見失わないために!」人への迎合・機嫌を取るのをやめた方がいい理由   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━ ━━━━ ●A blog that makes life easier for HSPs and sensitive people https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of each diagnostic test for HSPs: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●[Archival version] What to try when you can't keep a job and feel self-loathing What methods can you use to work without pushing yourself? https://brweb.jp/life/mental/ ●The ultimate solo technique. When you're having trouble with relationships, try living as a "friendly lone wolf." What is the secret to not making enemies, according to a counselor? https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, a relaxed lifestyle) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Qualified as a mental health counselor and behavioral psychologist, interpersonal skills acquired through 15 years of parallel work from manufacturing to teaching, and experience studying healing through music, psychology and ethics at university, he started a counseling business. Currently, he mainly communicates and works as a writer about human relationship problems. ●Click here for profile details https://brweb.jp/profile/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ This channel is only about your problems and aims to solve them from the perspective of a counselor and advisor. Please understand. Please also see the channel description. #HSP #Psychology #Relationships