【11選】結局、頭がいい人はココが違います

📝 Supplementary information and references that couldn't be covered in the video are available on note (free). → https://note.com/ningenzatsugaku More practical content will be released to members! Free relationship advice is also available.    / @ninngenn-zatugaku   This time, we'll explain the difference between "people with a big heart" and "people with a small heart." People with a big heart aren't just kind people or people who forgive everything. Truly big-hearted people don't immediately vent their anger or discomfort on others; they internalize it first before communicating what needs to be said. Conversely, people with a small heart may seem to be paying attention to others, but in reality, they are protecting their own pride and vulnerability. This time, we will slowly explain the following: The psychology of people who become emotional easily Characteristics of people who hurt others with logical arguments Why people who can apologize are truly strong Why people with a big heart don't care about winning or losing in relationships Specific ways to broaden your heart If you have any anecdotes about "people with a big heart" around you, or conversely, experiences where you felt "this person had a small heart," please share them in the comments. References used: Amy Edmondson, "Psychological Safety and Learning Behavior in Work Teams" Porter & Schumann, "Intellectual humility and openness to the opposing view" Harvard Study of Adult Development / Harvard Gazette Mayo Clinic, "Assertive communication" Psychological research on self-serving bias, intellectual humility, psychological safety, and assertive communication Psychological safety is addressed in research showing that an atmosphere where people can take interpersonal risks is related to learning behavior. Intellectual humility is also studied in relation to openness to opposing opinions. The finding that good relationships are important for happiness and health is also highlighted in the Harvard Adult Development Study. #SlowExplanation #HumanTrivia #Psychology #Relationships #GenerousPeople #IntelligentPeople #Communication #AdultTrivia #PersonalityDifferences #EmotionalControl