The M Factor: Why Women Are Right to Fear Misogyny

Why do some men become controlling, emotionally abusive, or violent toward women? The answer isn't simply anger, jealousy, or poor communication. At the root of many abusive relationships is a belief system built on entitlement, dominance, and misogyny. In this video, Lisa Sonni explores how misogyny shapes abusive behavior, why coercive control is about power rather than love, and how harmful beliefs about women can evolve into emotional abuse, manipulation, and violence. Understanding these dynamics can help survivors recognize the warning signs, stop blaming themselves, and better understand the system that enables abuse. If you've ever wondered: • Why do abusive men feel entitled to control women? • What role does misogyny play in domestic abuse? • Why does coercive control escalate over time? • How can someone who claims to love you also try to dominate you? This video is for you. In this episode, you'll learn: ✔ What misogyny really means—and why it's often misunderstood ✔ How entitlement fuels emotional abuse and coercive control ✔ Why abuse is about power, not love or anger ✔ The connection between misogyny and domestic violence ✔ How patriarchal beliefs influence unhealthy relationship dynamics ✔ Why equality can feel threatening to controlling partners ✔ What healthy masculinity looks like in contrast to domination ✔ How recognizing these patterns can support healing and recovery Whether you're recovering from narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, coercive control, domestic abuse, or another toxic relationship, understanding the beliefs that drive abusive behavior can bring clarity, validation, and freedom from self-blame. Healing begins when you recognize that abuse is never caused by your worth—it is driven by another person's need for power and control. 💜 About Lisa Sonni Lisa Sonni is a certified relationship coach, author, and educator specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery, coercive control, emotional abuse, trauma bonds, and helping women heal after abusive relationships. Through education and survivor advocacy, she empowers women to rebuild their confidence, trust themselves again, and create healthier futures. Subscribe for more videos that expose abuse tactics and answer the questions you've always wondered about toxic and abusive relationships. RESOURCES FROM LISA Get more education, 24/7 healing and resources inside my online community She Rises Collective: https://strongerthanbefore.ca/membership Join our 12-Week Group Coaching Programs with me and Dr. Peter Salerno https://strongerthanbefore.ca/group-c... FREE QUIZZES Are You Trauma Bonded? Take this free 2 minute quiz with instant results: https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/trau... Where Am I In My Healing? Take this free 2 minute quiz with instant results: https://kcdplmm983r.typeform.com/to/x... TALK TO LISA Work With Me Book a 1:1 Recovery Strategy Session or a Coaching Package https://strongerthanbefore.ca/book-a-... Trauma Bond Recovery Course https://strongerthanbefore.ca/trauma-... Website https://strongerthanbefore.ca About Lisa Sonni Abusive relationship educator and trauma bond recovery expert. Certified Trauma Recovery Coach, creator of the Break & Rebuild Method, and author of four abuse-recovery books. Host of Relationships Uncensored Podcast. #NarcissisticAbuse #TraumaRecovery #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #TraumaBonding #EmotionalAbuse #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #HealingFromTrauma #ToxicRelationships ⚠️ DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not therapy or medical advice. Always seek professional help for your specific situation. 00:00 Why Misogyny Is More Dangerous Than You Think 01:18 What Misogyny Actually Means 02:56 Why Abuse Starts With Beliefs 04:31 Dominance vs. Healthy Masculinity 06:12 Entitlement Is the Foundation of Abuse 07:45 Why Equality Feels Like Disrespect to Some Men 09:36 How Misogyny Shows Up in Relationships 11:18 Coercive Control Isn't About Love 13:05 The Role of Patriarchy & Social Conditioning 15:08 The Manosphere's Influence on Abuse 17:02 What Safe Masculinity Looks Like 18:38 Final Thoughts